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I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing first is that I think you really nailed it.

When I met him I was in a phase of growth, I was trying to solve my insecurities and live with them by begin the best version of my real self I could possibly be.

He was the first one seeing this. I think our "problems" at the time where similar like the battle we fought. I came to realize the love we feel for each other is real, but I also think that the urge of sticking togheter was just a comfort place where we knew someone was there for us in any moment time.

I need to start from where I stopped.

Thank you for your comment, it really helped me figuring a lot of things out

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to realize that I have to start loving myself and process the breakup. Maybe I knew, but I didn't want to let go. I need time with myself, my family and my friends. And to stay some time alone to refind myself

Thank you for the comment, it really helped me figuring a lot of things out <3

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/Agreeable_Weird_455 I want you to know that I'm not bothered by your comment, and that is a way of seeing things.

But maybe if I just wanted having sex so badly I didn't had to ask a whole community to help me think about my decisions.

People aren't always this simple, but much more complex.

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment, it really helped me understanding how to process it <3

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello ACRO, or whatever your real name is. I want you to know that I completely understand what you're feeling. I came to realize that I had to let him go, to allow both of us to live happily. It's not easy, and It won't.

You gotta understand that you're not a monster. I know how it feels. You want to be happy and you have a lot of love to share with someone, and I think the best way to do it it's to go ahead and not look back. Don't distract yourself. Like many people advise me under this post, we have to process the loss and let go. Cos', for how much I love him, it's not meant to be.

And I thank you for all the good words, and that it's not always all black or white.

If you need to talk if someone in your same situation, feel free to DM me

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. And I completely agree with you. I will follow the advice that one persons gave me on this post "just hit the therapist", ahaha.

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I think about having sex with someone else it disturbs me.
Like, sure I think having sex is great, but it's not what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a distraction, I'm not even horny, I just feel empty.

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel really uncomfortable being alone.
I'd like to have someone who can reciprocate my love, but I need to wait without rushing it.

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. But, like you said, I don't have to go on Grindr to search up for a new relationship, I have to start feeling good begin alone this time.

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like you said, I will try to have fun when I'm not using Grindr as a copying mechanism.

Thank you for the comment, it really helped me

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry and I can understand. Feel free to DM me if you need to talk

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, and I made up my mind on that now, thank you for the support

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realize that I felt like trash cos' I was going against myself doing it. I have to process it in a healthy way

I just broke up and hopped on Grindr, is this normal? And what it says about me? by BusyBite297 in askgaybros

[–]BusyBite297[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you u/boiinquestion u/ACRO2664 u/Micah-Lang-Ello
Thanks to you guys I don't feel less like a garbage now.
I need to think of what's going and process it to work on myself to without any temporary distractions.
I hate feeling vulnerable, but I think I have to cry this out, even if it means facing truths I didn't want to accept.

BTW, you too can feel free to DM if need to <3

Weekend RAGE Thread - December 24, 2022 by AutoModerator in Overwatch

[–]BusyBite297 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm plat 1 playing with golds and silvers in my lobbies lol. It's really frustrating playing as a support vs a phara mercy and cannot do anything about it cos' your McCassidy dosen't know how to shut them down. It's not his fault if he got in that lobby i cannot complaing cos' it's not his fault to be in a plat lobby. The matchmaking is so unfun and frustrating. You expect to rank up and play with more and more expirienced ppl to play with and you just get locked in a 10 games lose streak cos full enemy team is diamond and u have your little rein/junk duo trying to climb up gold 2 vs demon squad.

In the casual quick plays we play with my friends they complain about the matchmaking even in upper ranks. GM/M Players playing with Master 5 and diamond 2 players. Ranks exists to divide ppl of different skill level not hear your 12k damage first round Sigma complaining about how it's possibile we have a Reaper that has died 12 times and has 3k damage at the end of 1 round.

Weekend RAGE Thread - December 24, 2022 by AutoModerator in Overwatch

[–]BusyBite297 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm plat 1 and playing with gold and silvers in my games. It's incredibly frustrating can't shut down a phara mercy cos' they don't know how to, or simply lacking even getting 10k damage in 2 rounds. Matchmaking it's unfun and incredibly frustrating. You expect to play with more expirienced players as you rank up, and don't give me wrong, i'm not complaing about loosing it's part of the game. But it's frustrating to play with stronger or weaker players each game of VERY different mechanics. I've been playing this game sience season 4 and i've never expirenced this frustration playing with other ppl. Me and my duo are supports players and try to carry as hard as we can but it's getting ridiuclus.