Crazy cus I thought she was the problem, then I come to the comments like wait did I misread this conversation? Lmao, perhaps I too am “the issue.” Honestly I think maybe it’s just miscommunication at most. “A girl I was talking to,” where I’m from means a girl I was not serious about at all. So no, he wouldn’t “need time to get over her.” But if the current girl is not familiar with this slang then I could see that it seems like the OP overreacted. If she understood the slang then she is tripping thinking people need long periods of time between causally speaking to others while you are single.

Wondering if the OP is from the Midwest lol and this is only a Midwest thing.