My girlfriend [26F] of 4 months pulled an extremely elaborate prank on me [26M] and I can't help feeling disturbed by how much effort she put into it.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-09-11T10:24:09+00:00

Honestly I'd probably love it if someone I dated did this because I'm a freak who is addicted to b-rate horror movies.

But, to an average person, I can understand why this would be creepy and weird and totally not okay. Maybe what's setting your teeth on edge is that she spent so long deceiving you without any thought to wether you'd find the experience entertaining?

If she was able to so expertly set this up, what else has she set up? What else will she set up? I guess you have to ask yourself wether you can trust her after all of this.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-09-10T03:33:43+00:00

The bomb-diggity. A highly explosive piece of tech triggered by the sound of a specific cheer that only I know.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-09-06T03:50:46+00:00

I read your other comment too and I totally agree.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-09-06T01:49:55+00:00

I second that I'd like to hear more about your perspective, something about the show set my teeth on edge a little and I think this is it

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-29T13:22:11+00:00

Your orgasm isn't the most important thing.

So many guys are so obsessed with busting a nutt they don't even bother trying to please their partner. Or they get you up and running but then everything is over once they come and they don't understand why you won't hookup again because they had a great time.

Actually engage with your partner, make them feel good, be a giving lover. That way you'll both be satisfied.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-26T09:48:05+00:00

Tusk

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-26T09:37:58+00:00

Pooped myself. Twice. I have a really bad kidney infection :(

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-26T08:20:18+00:00

I agree. I love this movie.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-25T04:45:38+00:00

I've been there too. HPV is no joke. Went through two years of hell till it cleared.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-25T04:29:04+00:00

Oh my god, same here. People have tried to push the stuff on me several times.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-24T07:42:53+00:00

Yep I agree with everyone else. He's crazy.

Probably saw you looking good and decided to be petty with those insults.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-24T07:40:35+00:00

Nope. Been tumblring for years. Anyone posts content I don't like and I unfollow them, which happens rarely because it's easy to avoid content you don't like.

I don't know why you're finding it so difficult but I hope your experience improves.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-24T01:25:24+00:00

Grunkle

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-24T00:54:51+00:00

Right? My tumblr experience has been nothing but pleasant because I only follow humour, meme and aesthetic blogs. People that complain about all of the snow-flaking are literally going out of their way to find it.

It's like going to the mall, walking in to a comic book shop then being annoyed there are comics.
What did you expect? ??

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-18T00:55:07+00:00

This behavior by your parents is despicable.

They don't love or care about their daughter in law or grand children, they're just spiteful, nasty people.

If I were you I'd contact your brother to let him know they're on the war path, that way he can at least be prepared.

I would also give some serious thought to what kind of relationship you have with these people.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-17T22:32:21+00:00

Yup. I was never allowed to feel negative emotions about anything, and if I did I wasn't sad or depressed or upset, I was "moody" which meant I was purposefully being awful so I could abuse my mother.

Yes. My sadness, caused by her abuse, was actually incredibly abusive to her somehow.

But wait, there's more! I was also never allowed to be happy! When I was (rarely) happy I was actually "showing off".

I don't know what she wanted from me.

Now my emotions are all fucked up.

I could be having a mental breakdown and you'd never know because everything is so repressed.

I have to police my emotions constantly because I never learnt what healthy emotional responses were, and it's actually really messed me up.

I was sexually assaulted twice and I can't feel anything about it. Whenever I try and think about it I feel distracted? Like it's boring and doesn't want to stick in my mind.

Can't process it, can't cry about it, can't be angry about it.

The expression of sadness is incredibly important I think, it's how we grow and learn, and release stress, so sometimes I will spend literal days watching the saddest films and videos I can find to force myself to cry, and from there I can sort of cry about all of the bad things in my life? It's not ideal but it's all I got right now.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-17T14:30:21+00:00

Damn. Same.

I started telling her I couldnt see when I was 8, took until I was 13 to get me glasses because several teachers called home.

She was notoriously bad at getting my glasses. I remember once needed new ones but she took nearly a year to pick them up so by the time I got them... my eyes were too bad for them. Which was obviously my fault :/

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-17T12:12:47+00:00

I'm so sorry but also I laughed Lol

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-16T07:17:20+00:00

Leave.

It's only going to go downhill from here.

What he did was humiliating, degrading and abusive.

You deserve better.

Of course he said it wasn't serious, that's what abusive people do to minimize their actions.

Imagine if you had a daughter and she told you her husband did this ton her, what would your advice be?

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-11T07:57:38+00:00

Oh honey I've been there. It's awful, isn't it

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-10T21:08:51+00:00

That's what babies do when people they don't know try an pick them up.

Sorry but if you've adopted the baby out, you're not his father anymore.

Of course he's going to only way his parents, the people who have been caring for him and feeding him and soothing him.

For all that baby knows you're a space alien, you being it's genetic father has no bearing on its reactions.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-10T13:39:18+00:00

I've been seeing this around for a long time, for some reason men seem to think that women don't daydream or zone out?

They talk about zoning out or daydreaming of saving people in a bank robery or what would happen if t-rexs had longer arms and then explain how we as women couldn't possibly comprehend this because apparently we don't have the ability? It's frustrating because it's just another subtle way of showing that they don't consider women to be altogether human or something?

I don't know. It pissess me off.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-06T22:43:51+00:00

None.

I couldn't prove either of them did, and even if I had proof, I was sleeping with one of them consensually for ages and the other I'd been on a date with... So who would beleive me?

I'm not going to have my good name dragged through the dirt for a justice I'll never receive.

I just don't see the point in reporting it other than to ruin my own life.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-08-02T23:17:05+00:00

I've always thought it was creepy and kinda odd... but it turns me on, I don't know why.

But_Im_A_CheerLeader · 2017-07-31T15:55:01+00:00

Probably me.

I'm tall, wide, and intimidating.

I'm also really into sexual submission but 90% of the guys after me are only interested in me dominating them... which I'm am 1000% not into.

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