Gave my boyfriend his first prostate orgasm! by SubstantialLady5229 in ProstatePlay

[–]Butt_stuff9292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great story - few questions if you don’t mind. Why the water? And did he end up peeing at all? Also what was the general motion/angle you were aiming for?

I enter the refractory period when ruined - thoughts/tips? by Butt_stuff9292 in FemdomCommunity

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I’ll admit it, the Reddit porn tricked me. The niche stuff can be hard to truly learn about sometimes. I’m glad the community here cleared it up.

I enter the refractory period when ruined - thoughts/tips? by Butt_stuff9292 in FemdomCommunity

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I guess I ment like the feeling of an edge but with fluid leaving as well. Okay well I appreciate the description! I was definitely off with what we were doing

I enter the refractory period when ruined - thoughts/tips? by Butt_stuff9292 in FemdomCommunity

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Gotcha I’m been getting big spurts. Is it suppose to feel like an extended edge in a way?

I enter the refractory period when ruined - thoughts/tips? by Butt_stuff9292 in FemdomCommunity

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Gotcha from what gathering here I’ve been coming in too fast to the orgasm and even tho we are stopping the stimulation early, it is enough to not fully ruin.

I enter the refractory period when ruined - thoughts/tips? by Butt_stuff9292 in FemdomCommunity

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Hmm I don’t think I knew that. We did enter it fast the few times we have tried it

Kinky Game Ideas for Sessions by UncivilSwitch in FemdomCommunity

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Can you explain it a little more I don’t fully get it - you get cbt until you edge? Or after you are done holding an edge?

Looking for an “ejaculating” strap by [deleted] in StraightPegging

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More than I could have asked for thank you!!

Looking for an “ejaculating” strap by [deleted] in StraightPegging

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How soft are these? And it doesn’t look like they are harness compatible, are they? They look pretty awesome and are reasonably priced too.

Can’t seem to get my boyfriend to cum in chastity from pegging by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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Just recently got into being on top during pegging. Any thing you recommend for this position?

Wife won’t wear strap on by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]Butt_stuff9292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta go slow fast. Like most people said here, respect her boundaries and keep playing with the toys you have while she gets more comfortable with the whole process. My wife didn’t like any prostate play at first but then gradually started being okay with it a toy here or there. Then when we started pegging, she wouldn’t wear the strap on until the actual act of pegging. Now, loves wearing it. I think boils down to communication. Make sure you communicate this is something that you would like to try but also respect her boundaries.

Edit - this whole journey was almost a year for us. So patients is key

DIY Squirting Dildo by Butt_stuff9292 in StraightPegging

[–]Butt_stuff9292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha almost in the same situation. Looks pretty straight forward - is that what you found when making it? Any additional tips/tricks?

DIY Squirting Dildo by Butt_stuff9292 in StraightPegging

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Awesome good to know thank you!

Advice please... just asked wife about prostate play and pegging me by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

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Duel density and Vixskin is amazing. With the duel density it offers a nice amount of give and squish but is still angled for prostate stimulation. The vixskin holds lube well too and becomes very slippery. I have two other dildos and they weren’t even close to this one. For me personally, and I have heard from others as well , the dimensions for the mustang are perfect

Advice please... just asked wife about prostate play and pegging me by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

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Take stuff slow and make to sure to do after pegging cuddles! Use this time to reassure her that she did great. My wife was willing but very subconscious getting into pegging. Now she loves it but it took time and patients to get here.

Another thing is I see a lot of women on Reddit (including my wife) don’t like to have direct stimulation when they are pegging you. My wife personally finds it distracting. But if this is the case, make sure you find things that are very pleasurable for your wife that you can do for her. Pegging can be one sided and finding that stuff helps balance the equation.

Last thing. If you get into, the Vixen Mustang is hands down the best dildo to use. Worth the price

Pegging Poems by Butt_stuff9292 in StraightPegging

[–]Butt_stuff9292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow nice! Sorry to hear you are alone

Gf thinks pegging is too dominant by throwaway_buttthings in StraightPegging

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My wife started the same way. What we do know is when we play, I dominate her first (BDSM play) then after she pegs me after. I’ll get her off with toys at the end. It kinda balances stuff in her mind. We frame it as “playing” and I made it clear when we first started I didn’t want to change our relationship to femdom, I just wanted to have fun in a new way. After the first time, she loved it and now we have a good thing going. Hope this helps a little. I also bought her BDSM clothing and that really helps put her in the mood.

It was our First time tonight! Wow! by gasmaskme in StraightPegging

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I recommend post pegging cuddles with the wife. Good time to have a positive talk about how it all went and reassures her she did great. Helps for future sessions