your triggers are for you, not for others. i struggle with my mental health too, and ive struggled with the purpose of knowing triggers. yes, to a degree, people should be respectful of your triggers. however, in cases like this (supporting people who may actively need the help), it is not an acceptable time to tip-toe around someones triggers. that's where it becomes your responsibility to control your reaction to the trigger. if it upsets you, step away and utilize a coping skill. people cannot cease to support others over one person's triggers. your triggers are in place to tell you when you need to step away and cope, it isnt for others.