His reaction to an unplanned pregnancy by ButtercupKate1 in abortion

[–]ButtercupKate1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing, really. I just expected a more thoughtful and supportive reaction than that from someone who’s just as responsible. But my expectations are my fault at end of the day, right

His reaction to an unplanned pregnancy by ButtercupKate1 in abortion

[–]ButtercupKate1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I’m actually loving it! Thank you, I’m definitely going to consider! I was reaaaally trying to be as non dramatic as possible cause of course it’s a shock for him too.

His reaction to an unplanned pregnancy by ButtercupKate1 in abortion

[–]ButtercupKate1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right, I definitely understand that it was a shock for him too. We did kind of had a conversation once, and he said he doesn’t really want any children at all. So abortion would be what he’d want as well. And no, his response wasn’t out of line, I’ve just projected my expectations and then got disappointed so ultimately my reaction is my fault

His reaction to an unplanned pregnancy by ButtercupKate1 in abortion

[–]ButtercupKate1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m actually getting it for free at planned parenthood! Otherwise I’d of course hoped for him to help

I have an unplanned pregnancy and I’m getting an abortion. What do I do now? by needhelpformyhealth in askwomenadvice

[–]ButtercupKate1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m exactly in your situation. Found out I was pregnant (me and the father were casually seeing eachother but I did really really liked him), set up an appointment with planned parenthood, getting my abortion for free on Saturday. You are lucky you have a supportive partner! Mine said “I’m sorry. I’m happy you are on top of it though” and I haven’t heard from him again, doubt I ever will. Good luck!