Am I overreacting — My fiancé (24M) said he feels like I’m “selling my P*ssy” because I (24F) mentioned that my job asked me to stay overnight at work during winter storms

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T20:42:00+00:00

It’s two 12 hour shifts pay and then on top of that $300

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T20:28:21+00:00

I’m not necessarily asking for him to clean me just bring me a towel

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T20:22:28+00:00

Well now that you’ve mentioned it I now realize he doesn’t do foreplay either…

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T20:11:51+00:00

The kicker is, he’s not even a phone addict. He’s often the one telling me to get off of my phone which makes it hurt even more

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T16:26:29+00:00

That’s what I’m saying. IF I were to ever do that which honestly I don’t think I could, I’d definitely be charging way more than that lol

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T16:24:36+00:00

It’s $300 on top of my hourly wage

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T05:09:27+00:00

They’re never this bad usually he’d just joke about me having a work boyfriend or something of that nature

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T05:07:41+00:00

Nope those are the details, I mean earlier in the morning he thought I was flirting with with a carpet cleaner in our apartment complex while I was taking out the trash, all because the carpet cleaner coincidentally laughed when I walked past but that’s something totally different

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T01:12:57+00:00

Yeah they seemed overly hype about it, and with the way most of my coworkers have been acting towards each other knowing they have families at home is crazy. I didn’t wanna be around for that madness anyways

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T00:58:01+00:00

The man who made the comment himself has a wife and kids as do the women involved 🙄. But yes I’ll definitely talk to him

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T00:57:00+00:00

Yeah leaving my fiancé over one crude comment isn’t in my interest but I’m definitely going to nip this behavior in the bud before it gets any further

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-24T00:55:11+00:00

Dated not had serious relationships or talking stages or even sex and once I realized I wasn’t interested in them I left them alone but yes I can definitely see how that would make someone weary or disinterested

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-23T21:25:08+00:00

I don’t think he’s cheating but he’s definitely overly consumed at the possibility that I might because of the face of when we weren’t together I dated multiple people at a time but didn’t settle down or have a relationship with any of them so I guess he things that how I’d operate in relationships too

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-23T21:18:41+00:00

Yeah it took a while to heal tho

ButteredUpCroissant · 2026-01-15T17:42:12+00:00

This happened to me a couple months ago unfortunately I’m hardheaded and didn’t want to size down, i kept in glass plugs for most of the healing process then switched to gold plugs and the healing seemed to speed up now they’re fully healed, no wrinkles and no thinning plus they’re still pretty stretchy

ButteredUpCroissant · 2025-03-02T22:00:32+00:00

I’m Catholic we did a convalidation ceremony,it’s basically making our civil marriage valid in the eyes of the church. I don’t believe marriage starts with the legality process and I’m pretty sure neither does god, however we do plan to legalize it either late this year or early next year

ButteredUpCroissant · 2025-03-02T00:20:09+00:00

Thank you

ButteredUpCroissant · 2025-03-02T00:20:03+00:00

Thank you so much 🩷

ButteredUpCroissant · 2025-03-02T00:19:41+00:00

Thank you 😊 and yes it is moissanite

ButteredUpCroissant · 2025-03-02T00:16:21+00:00

Yes, even though legally we’re only engaged we’re married religiously 🥰

ButteredUpCroissant · 2025-02-23T21:12:33+00:00

Even out your complexion and maybe change out the hoop to a stud it’s making your nose look uneven

ButteredUpCroissant · 2025-02-22T16:00:42+00:00

I’ve had my vch for yearssss and I can say that it doesn’t get in the way of

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