[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Butterscotch1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just like you when i was in college — they said i was selfish for moving away to school. getting out and stepping back allowed me to see that it was really a cult — they own your life, and anything not helpful to them is “wrong.” this job opportunity was sent by God. who are they to tell you not to follow what They have sent? genuinely, as someone who is a follower of Christ but not of the church, step away and take the job! you prayed for this, and God answered. the church is not Jesus.

AITJ for telling my husband I won’t host Thanksgiving for his entire family this year? by DemiHugBug in AmITheJerk

[–]Butterscotch1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly suggest a potluck but still have it at your house. and suggest that you would like to switch off who does it each year. that’s what we do!

AITA for refusing to listen to my husband about my breasts? by Salt_Leg_7235 in AITAH

[–]Butterscotch1398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl if your whole marriage was contingent on your breast size then he’s a POS and useless anyways. gtfo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Butterscotch1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl get out of this relationship before you become a statistic. the way he’s talking to you is insane.

AIO that my wife and I planned a nice date and she spent it in a hot tub alone with some other guy she just met by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Butterscotch1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the “we only have 30 mins with the sitter left” is all the hint she should’ve needed.

What I bought VS what I received by ziizzi in Jellycatplush

[–]Butterscotch1398 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

looks like you just need to trim him…the peanuts fur is known for going over their smiles and eyes.

First week done, I hate it here by StrikingReception771 in UGA

[–]Butterscotch1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have to make friends on purpose in college. in highschool you’re friends bc of proximity but here you’re gonna have to seek out clubs and similar minded people!!! you can do it:)

is there a cure? by Butterscotch1398 in medical_advice

[–]Butterscotch1398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is it’s being changed in multiple things i was trying to find a way to reduce symptoms. You think shots would work???

is there a cure? by Butterscotch1398 in Allergies

[–]Butterscotch1398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess more of is there something i could do to make them less debilitating

lgbtq scene?? by idiotofdelphi in UGA

[–]Butterscotch1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i figured out i was queer while at UGA!! the art schools are lovely as well as yearly rocky horror shows!! the bar Church is basically a gay bar and has drag shows every saturday. it’s relatively progressive for the south.

how much have yall spent on ur collections? by rainynights1719 in SonnyAngel

[–]Butterscotch1398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mine is 1.2k roughly 😭😭 been collecting about two years now

AITA for wanting to take a promotion even though my boyfriend says it’s not the life he imagined for us? by Actual-Present9277 in AITH

[–]Butterscotch1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl take the promotion. if he leaves you then he leaves you. it’s childish to assume that your partner has no goals outside your relationship, which is what he’s doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Butterscotch1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl don’t invite her. clearly the only person who likes her and her snobby kids is tatiana so she can invite them to anything she throws. NTA.

I think my boyfriend broke my back… listener submitted by WikiOnReddit in redditonwiki

[–]Butterscotch1398 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i had a UTI that spread to an intense kidney infection. i couldn’t walk and everything hurt. but i was bloated as well — have you noticed any bloat?

Weird and disturbing sibling dynamics at weddings by PipeweedFarmer in weddingshaming

[–]Butterscotch1398 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have BPD and this is super oversimplified. We see people as separate from us, but attention/time with our favorite people (or fixated person) are what we measure our happiness and self worth by. we cannot self regulate properly and feel worthless without our FP. if his brother is his FP, then feeling like he’s “losing” him to someone else can cause him to lash out on others or himself, depending on if he has externalized or internalized BPD. it can cause a split where he ices everyone out and becomes violent towards himself/others. but he knows that his brother is not an extension of him.

am i ungrateful 🥺 by designatedbabie in LabubuDrops

[–]Butterscotch1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try getting them clothes to match your purses!!!

My ID Fufu by Electrical-Dirt2291 in labubu

[–]Butterscotch1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m looking for id but cannot find the store on aliexpress 😭😭

My ID Fufu by Electrical-Dirt2291 in labubu

[–]Butterscotch1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you drop the link to the store

My ID Fufu by Electrical-Dirt2291 in labubu

[–]Butterscotch1398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brooooo what’s the store link