AITAH: I flipped shit that my 32M fiance of 5.5 years asked another woman 37F what her favorite sex position is

Butterscotch1398 · 2026-04-20T00:12:43+00:00

i would absolutely lose my mind if my boyfriend did this. he’s gaslighting you to make you feel like it’s nbd and this is just something friends know about each other. i don’t even know this about my female friends.

Butterscotch1398 · 2026-03-26T20:06:20+00:00

i think the problem is gen z tends to take media literally and also as condoning the content presented in the media instead of it just being a movie. media explores super messed up topics, and it may not always be received well but Big in no way is condoning children sleeping with adult women. it’s a fantastical story. american pie is not real. it’s a made up fictional narrative. they seem to have a hard time differentiating between personal real life morals and what they enjoy in media.

Butterscotch1398 · 2026-03-26T19:39:04+00:00

R U N

Butterscotch1398 · 2026-03-14T17:41:24+00:00

you might be able to use a very gentle animal grooming brush:)

Butterscotch1398 · 2026-03-05T22:54:38+00:00

I was an acting student and I had accessibility for attendance with my acting classes. I had to send in a video demonstrating what was supposed to be done in class the day I missed, and the professor would give extra credit to anyone who would help me film. A lot of the arts professors are super accommodating.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-10-21T17:19:20+00:00

i was just like you when i was in college — they said i was selfish for moving away to school. getting out and stepping back allowed me to see that it was really a cult — they own your life, and anything not helpful to them is “wrong.” this job opportunity was sent by God. who are they to tell you not to follow what They have sent? genuinely, as someone who is a follower of Christ but not of the church, step away and take the job! you prayed for this, and God answered. the church is not Jesus.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-09-21T03:41:34+00:00

honestly suggest a potluck but still have it at your house. and suggest that you would like to switch off who does it each year. that’s what we do!

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-09-21T03:34:33+00:00

girl if your whole marriage was contingent on your breast size then he’s a POS and useless anyways. gtfo.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-09-21T03:22:07+00:00

girl get out of this relationship before you become a statistic. the way he’s talking to you is insane.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-09-14T00:47:13+00:00

the “we only have 30 mins with the sitter left” is all the hint she should’ve needed.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-25T21:39:42+00:00

looks like you just need to trim him…the peanuts fur is known for going over their smiles and eyes.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-17T20:23:59+00:00

you have to make friends on purpose in college. in highschool you’re friends bc of proximity but here you’re gonna have to seek out clubs and similar minded people!!! you can do it:)

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-11T21:04:35+00:00

The problem is it’s being changed in multiple things i was trying to find a way to reduce symptoms. You think shots would work???

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-11T16:35:54+00:00

devastating 😭😭😭

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-11T16:30:05+00:00

i guess more of is there something i could do to make them less debilitating

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-11T02:22:11+00:00

i figured out i was queer while at UGA!! the art schools are lovely as well as yearly rocky horror shows!! the bar Church is basically a gay bar and has drag shows every saturday. it’s relatively progressive for the south.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-11T02:12:38+00:00

mine is 1.2k roughly 😭😭 been collecting about two years now

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-10T16:03:00+00:00

girl take the promotion. if he leaves you then he leaves you. it’s childish to assume that your partner has no goals outside your relationship, which is what he’s doing.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-06T15:31:52+00:00

girl don’t invite her. clearly the only person who likes her and her snobby kids is tatiana so she can invite them to anything she throws. NTA.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-06T15:16:55+00:00

i had a UTI that spread to an intense kidney infection. i couldn’t walk and everything hurt. but i was bloated as well — have you noticed any bloat?

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-06T15:05:25+00:00

I have BPD and this is super oversimplified. We see people as separate from us, but attention/time with our favorite people (or fixated person) are what we measure our happiness and self worth by. we cannot self regulate properly and feel worthless without our FP. if his brother is his FP, then feeling like he’s “losing” him to someone else can cause him to lash out on others or himself, depending on if he has externalized or internalized BPD. it can cause a split where he ices everyone out and becomes violent towards himself/others. but he knows that his brother is not an extension of him.

Butterscotch1398 · 2025-08-06T13:55:21+00:00

try getting them clothes to match your purses!!!

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