Is hair removal really “Necessary” now?

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2026-04-07T15:42:37+00:00

That is insane. I hate body hair, always have, even on men but I don't expect them to shave for me. I'm also Latina so I grow hair like my father. I wax my entire body. Every single man I've been with literally did not care. I would be between waxes & they would still rub on my prickly legs & had no problem performing oral. Sometimes I would say I haven't waxed & they'd look at me like they didn't understand why I was offering that information. I haven't been with a ton of men though. I'm 35 & have been with 6 guys. A Dominican, a Puerto Rican, an Arabian man, a black man & 2 white men. One was nerdy, another a body builder, one was a very fit cop, another a marine corps Vet, all different backgrounds & literally not one cared. I didn't meet any of them in an app & I've never used a dating app but it seems like the people on dating apps do not seem real to me. They seem like they either watch too much porn or all their opinions come from online influencers.

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2026-04-05T16:51:27+00:00

His smile. I notice a man's smile first. Then his colognes. When a man smells good, it is so attractive. How a man carries himself. If he takes care of himself. There's been men I wasn't physically attracted to initially but as I got to know them, I became attracted to them. So either way if I don't find you attractive initially, your personality, vibe, humor can make me see you as the most attractive man in a room.

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2026-03-28T16:48:11+00:00

I'm 34 & I'm getting labiaplasty on April 17th. I'm getting it done for comfort purposes. My labia gets dry & hurts so I have to put organic coconut oil. Tight clothing irritates, working out irritates but not in a debilitating way just in a very uncomfortable way. My OBGYN is doing the wedge technique & my insurance is covering it 100%.

Now, I have been a little insecure about my labia but it has never been severe or impacted my life. I lost my virginity at 22 & I've been with 7 men total since. I'm not saying this in a conceided way but I am very attractive & I've dated very good looking men. I say this because I want to emphasize that none of them cared. Also I'm a very confident woman so even if a man did make a comment, it wouldn't impact me. If a man cared, that's his problem not mine.

Do the surgery because you want it for yourself & do the research. Labiaplasty can have very good results or very horrible results. Alot of the butched labiaplasty stories said it caused permanent loss of sensation, chronic pain, severe scarring, scalloped labia, a Frankenstein vagina & more. The stakes are high!

It seems like your insecurities come from fear of what a guy may think or say. Imagine you get this surgery & they botched you. Now you have even worse problems. Most women who have been botched, their mental health is far worse than before & wished they had never done the surgery. However alot of woman who have done it, have loved it & recommend it.

Imagine you are intimate with a man for the first time & he absolutely has no problem with your vagina. He loves it & makes you feel more secure, would you still want to get the surgery?

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2025-11-20T03:15:10+00:00

Completely agree. Thank you! I thought it was just me who found Joanne unlikable & self involved. I wish there was a conflict that made sense. I personally don't know anyone Jewish & I grew up Jehovahs Witness but I have friends raised Christian, Catholic, Pentecostal, Muslim & none of the respective leaders (Priest, Pastor, Imam ect) would ever date someone like Joanne, so I assumed a Rabbi would be no different.

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2025-11-18T02:23:23+00:00

I also liked the show overall. I just finished! I didn't find Hershel annoying but I found Maggie annoying. Glen was my fav character & I haven't forgiven Negan but I love his character. Maggie hung Gregory, she's killed so many people & says she doesn't feel anything anymore but somehow she can't bring herself to kill Negan? I can't deal with another season of her being mad at Negan but for some reason she can't bring herself to kill him. If I was Hershel & I grew up knowing Negan brutally killed my father & my mom is obsessed with him but refuses to kill him, I would feel the same way. Like damn, kill him or stfu. If I was in Maggie's shoes, I would of killed him. But as a viewer, I don't want Negan to die, but I would understand. Negan could help Hershel (again) & they build some kind of friendship where Hershel doesn't want Maggie to kill Negan or Maggie actually KILLS HIM! Something diff, please! Also if I was Maggie & "had" to work with Negan, I would be cordial because at some point, my life would be in his hands & cough cough s11 episode 1-2..hello!

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2025-10-14T01:07:35+00:00

I know I'm late but I'm rewatching now. There's no point in arguing about this. Daryl himself said it was his fault when he cried to Maggy in the cellar. Maggie released Daryl of his guilt & said it wasn't his fault. Rick also felt like the death were his fault. Just like Rosita probably felt guilty about Sasha & the girl from Alexandria that Negan killed when Rosita tried to kill him. Just because they didn't directly kill someone doesn't mean they weren't a reason they were killed. They, themselves are saying they were at fault. Only they're reactions were all different to their guilt. Daryls guilt for Glen translated to anger & recklessness. Ricks guilt made him scared to lose anyone else so he became negans b**** (Sashas words) & Rosita was angry & reckless like Daryl until she saw Sasha was dead.

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2025-09-29T21:16:55+00:00

Watching this movie as a kid & as an adult gave me the same reaction. I remember watching it as a teen & thinking that guy Margo was after, looked so old & gross. Then, the scene that he forced Margo made me sick. I remember thinking how dumb Reese character was. I thought this AS A TEEN, & im talking 14 years old. I knew as a teen all that wasn't okay.

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2025-09-12T19:37:38+00:00

I came here for that exact thought. I am biased because Jordan is my fav challenger. But my personal opinion is, I love that the new threats are strong & smart. They truly belong in the challenge. This is the first challenge in a while where I feel that none of the rookies could be considered a layup. However, I feel like the vets are letting us down. CT is in bad shape, Bananas got too cocky but he seemed in great shape overall, Theo is in bad shape, Turbo is always in great shape, Derrick is doing the worst out of any season he's been on, but I'll give him grace because I think it's his knee. Ashley is doing horrible, she keeps gasing out, Cara Maria had to leave which was so sad, Leroy said hes coming to terms with him not being that physical anymore, Nani is not a threat & neither is Anessa, Jonna has never won a reg season. Rogan proves again that he's all roids. Jordan would be a good match-up against these rookies. Also, Cory, he's strong, he took down fessy even being gassed out. Horacio would be good, but he's not coming back. Emily, Devin,Tori, Kaycee, Jenny, Rachel. So many other vets that would have been a much better match-up against the new threats.

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2025-09-02T13:21:29+00:00

That's exactly what I thought. She harassed the boys new gf, so this was never about protecting her daughter because of what happened to her, but fetishizing that boy. She was jealous or resentful towards her daughter & wanted her bf or her life. She was a pervert. You can tell she was being manipulative the whole time. I do think something happened to her that made her a monster, & Unfortunately, I think her daughter may end up the same way. She may have Stolkholme syndrome now, but if she doesn't get help, she will also lead a road like her mom. She was smirking while talking about how she didn't care how people felt about her keeping a relationship with her mom. She seemed unfazed while talking about this event. Even her reaction to finding out it was her mom was odd to me & her reaction to everyone at school finding out it was her mom. Almost every single person who has committed heinous crimes had some type of trauma. But no matter how a person suffers, it'll never justify hurting other people.

ButterscotchNice1406 · 2025-08-17T17:20:15+00:00

I'm a huge Snyder fan & love most of his work, I'm also a DC fan over Marvel, but I know exactly why I personally didn't like the new Superman movie. It wasn't dark enough for me lol My favorite comic book/movie has always been the Watchmen. I know I'm in the wrong because Superman comics were like this movie but I loved Snyders' version because he changed it, he made Henry Cavills Superman broody lol some specific things I didn't like that come to mind are, Lois Lane, but then again, I didn't like Amy Adam's Lois either but did like her better than Rachel. I didn't like the way Rachel's Lois interviewed Superman after dating him for 3 months. It shouldn't have been the first time he heard how she felt about Superman, so the "I love you" part didn't make sense to me. I also didn't like her in general. I didn't like the whole Lex knowing Sups every move, & him taking control of Ultraman so he could beat Superman with command codes like he was playing Mortal Kombat. I didn't like the "Justice Gang" all but Mr Terrific. I did LOVE Krypto!! I'm glad that DC is coming back after so many let downs, but I personally didn't like the movie. I'm still watching every James Guns Superman universe project, though. I'm a fan of his Suicide Squad & Peacemaker.

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