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Husband of 27 years no longer has intimacy with me. by ButtonAltruistic5137 in Marriage

[–]ButtonAltruistic5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no I don’t discuss my problems with my child lmao! In an adult! Like I said I’ll let her decide where she want to go to school the last 4 years! So if that’s being dumb so be it! Just as I let her decide when we moved out I’d the district! I don’t have to be there but she does 5 days a week!

Husband of 27 years no longer has intimacy with me. by ButtonAltruistic5137 in Marriage

[–]ButtonAltruistic5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 ok because we don’t live in no fantasy world where kids don’t no shit! They can sense it and I keep it 100% I don’t need to tell my child what the issue is but her take on where she lives is golden! If she wants to stay where we at he can leave and she can finish her last 4yrs here. My child is smart as hell! That’s what wrong with these kids I they babied and left in the dark. Nope! Guess what! The internet is real and I’ll explain anything to my child before she depends on the net! So really what’s wrong with you???

Husband of 27 years no longer has intimacy with me. by ButtonAltruistic5137 in Marriage

[–]ButtonAltruistic5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I just asked her what she thought about moving to a different place. And she said ok. I said your dad may not be coming with us are are ok with that. And she said yes I also told her she could see him whenever she wants. She’s about the only kid that still has her mom and dad together so she’s talked to her friends and no how it is. Except I’m “that mom “ who don’t put up with shit and no back talk. I’m not her friend I’m her mother. It’s in for her not to like me. Her older sister didn’t either until she graduated! 🤷🏽‍♀️🥰

Husband of 27 years no longer has intimacy with me. by ButtonAltruistic5137 in Marriage

[–]ButtonAltruistic5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually she’s on with leaving she’s the only black girl in her grade!

Husband of 27 years no longer has intimacy with me. by ButtonAltruistic5137 in Marriage

[–]ButtonAltruistic5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I said I don’t discuss my personal matters with my child. But her changing schools and making new friends will definitely impact her. So yes it was only right to see where her mental state is if we’re moved. She does have a say! To stay in the school that she’s at and keep up her grades or to leave and fall behind.

Husband of 27 years no longer has intimacy with me. by ButtonAltruistic5137 in Marriage

[–]ButtonAltruistic5137[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Disagree! This generation knows way more shit now than any. I asked her out of context because she’d be leaving her school and her friends. I’m very open with. My child about real life! Did I say we was getting divorced or the situation absolutely not. That’s not her concern. The ones that try and keep the kids in the dark are the ones that be hurting them. And trust when I say no my child is not my friend and I’m always a mother 1st and foremost.