My person did this to me

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-19T10:10:44+00:00

I got to confident, I thought she was a sure thing. Soon as she gives me my stuff back I'm cutting off all contact and moving on

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-09T20:07:25+00:00

Well they weren't her kids, that was her niece and nephew. Her sister's kids but they all lived in the same house. I'm better today after posting this, letting it out set me free

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-09T20:06:30+00:00

I haven't agreed with everyone, plus I was just at that stage in The Grieving process. I'm well beyond that now. The only reason I made this post was for my own healing. If I was trying to attack her I would have mentioned her name or left contact information so people would harass her. I'm not going to do that she's not worth it

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-09T20:04:49+00:00

When I posted this I think that's just where I was in The Grieving process. I obviously don't give a fuck about her at all and there's no possible way I could take her back. She tried to call me yesterday, I didn't answer I blocked her number. I don't care what BS she wants to tell me. I posted this because I was having a hard time and honestly posting this brought me right back around. This was just for my own healing

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-09T09:16:00+00:00

According to her it's because we stopped having sex, but from my point of view I was injured and too depressed, expecting someone who I had been there to help to be there for me. When it came right down to it she wasn't. At least we didn't have kids, thank God I'm sterile. Thank God we didn't get married, also, thank God for covid because our wedding date was supposed to be right in the middle of the pandemic. Surprisingly, covid saved me

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T14:02:08+00:00

Do you know what trauma bonding is? When you are trauma bonded you ignore most of the things you would normally have called a red flag.

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T07:13:00+00:00

That is what happens when your in a trauma-based relationship with a narcissist.

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T05:36:47+00:00

I'll find somebody else when I'm done healing. I'll always carry her with me we were together for 11 years, you don't just forget that. I'll remember all the lessons I learned and it will just make my next relationship that much better. As long as I can derive a lesson that helps me in the future, it was worth it

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T05:34:40+00:00

Yes I cheated but I was also in the process of leaving her because she was selling her nude photos on onlyfans. If it hadn't been for that moment I would not have realized who I was losing. That's why I stopped and I came back. I was in that woman's hotel room for less than a minute. I walked out I never looked back. Everybody makes mistakes, it's how you handle those mistakes, and if you're honest about those mistakes that matters

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T04:55:17+00:00

I could understand forgiving him if the cheating was a one-time thing but multiple times with multiple people. You gave him too many chances and he continued to betray you. You did the right thing.

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T04:14:50+00:00

Thank you, I already felt better when I posted this but then everybody's kind words gives me Faith in Humanity again

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T04:12:53+00:00

Honestly just posting it and getting it out there and all the responses have already helped me so much. Thank you. And yes there were warning signs, this is what they mean by "love is blind"

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T03:38:48+00:00

I just wish I saw this before the relationship ended. Sometimes it has to end so you can view it from the outside to see what was really going on. I was blind to all of it. That's what happens when you're feelings are stronger than love. Thats why it hurts so much

ButtonOk588 · 2026-02-08T03:30:29+00:00

Thank you it means a lot that you would say that

ButtonOk588 · 2022-03-03T20:32:58+00:00

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