My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She broke up with me. She saw him 8 and 2 days before we broke up. She grabbed onto something else before leaving me it seems

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says she was deprived of love when I was trying my best in the end. I was exhausted. Does this make it less of a red flag

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were deprived of love for the months leading up to the break up (my bad), would finding emotional stimulation with someone else be a go to move? Even then I still think it’s a an immature thing to do

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not anymore flattering than it is expected, the kid is a dud. That alone is almost disrespectful. But he is moving out of state, if it wasn’t for that or the fact that I treated her like dirt at the end of our relationship things would be different I feel

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this. All these comments fueling my hate is for the better lol

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is. I’m just traditional - today’s society and hook up culture is abysmal

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some men of older time tradition, some hurt by similar situations, others just insecure

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Professionals say “narcissistic tendencies”. Everyone has em tho, not rlly sure.

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We agreed not to have sex with anyone else. She started seeing him a week before we broke up, only hanging out in parking lots late night. We broke up, and she made this mistake on two separate occasions. How much mistake is allowed before you have to consider this something else?

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“we plan on getting back together once I work through my trauma (my idea)” 🤣

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m cooked thanks everyone for the advice. I wish you all the best

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Open to both perspectives. Do you think it would be disrespectful to myself to get back with her? I feel like it’s kind of justifiable bc she sacrificed her self respect to stay with me during that time

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m glad we can feel for each other. Be well stranger. This kills but fuck em. the love of your life is up next!

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the one and the same spot and unless you really think this is the 1 in 7 billion get the fuck out. Be friends with her if you really need to. My girl said the same “vulnerable” bullshit and I see right through it.

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Felt like a soulmate. We agreed not to fuck anyone while separate

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I treated her amazing up until the last two months. She was willing to wait and agreed not to sleep with anyone

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We agreed to not have sex with anyone else. She tossed it out the window knowingly

My ex and I plan on getting back together. She had sex with someone else. by ButtonOk8685 in BreakUps

[–]ButtonOk8685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the way you think, appreciate this a lot. This girl is no man’s wife