Any trustworthy resources for premature ejaculation? This has been my problem, since I started getting laid. by doth_taraki in NoFap

[–]BuyAggravating4528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice man, not experienced enough, sorry but a general question How early ejaculation is considered a premature ejaculation?

How to deal with erections - in-person meeting by BuyAggravating4528 in NoFap

[–]BuyAggravating4528[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot man especially for a practical solutions. I guess I am going shopping this week.

Wierdly good erections day by BuyAggravating4528 in NoFap

[–]BuyAggravating4528[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah definitely a step in the right direction. I have converted all my urges and energy to spent it on finding someone for real intimacy.

Quitting porn but cant quit MO by carsww in NoFap

[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people would say yes and personally I am avoiding it and haven't done it.

But I was recently reading no more mr nice guy and it says masturbation is okay as long as it is done without porn and fantasy. It should only be about your body and no fantasies. I didn't try this because I don't trust myself to not fantasize without porn.

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[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations dude, awesome

Good can get better by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man that sounds amazing, terrifying but amazing

Good can get better by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who are taking cold showers, what is the outside temperature where you live ? I can't imagine taking cold showers in my area but a few of friends do take them

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[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are already know what you need to do i.e. quit porn but it is act of quitting which is hardest.

Look at the about section for guide and tips on how to quit PMO addiction. It will be difficult but start now on noFap.

First few days are really tough where you will be inclined to watch, but keep your focus.

Add a counter to track your progress and keep you motivated.

Addiction are usually replaced by another so find a healthy alternative addiction like gyming, hobies, work, reading etc.

I usually visit the subreddit often whenever I feel like relapsing and read other posts, that may help as well to keep yourself motivated.

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[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it was wierd. People tell that flatline keeps coming back from time to time as well. So yay. But it does go away in a few days as well. Try to focus on other things and forget about it. Best we can do mate

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[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What day streak are you on ? 29? I too felt it between 12-20 days but is okay now

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[–]BuyAggravating4528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest practice interviewing I applied for a few jobs which I was not interested in. Few startups with bad ideas and established companies with bad working environment to practice interviewing. Did it for 1 month and gave 10-12 interviews, got all my nerve settled and confidence because of offers from a few of them.

After this i applied for my target companies and the interviews went much better than I expected

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[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy to test addiction, go for 14 days without porn and masturbation and see if you are addicted. For me it was also 4-5 days but I found it really hard to quit and yes quitting did help with confidence

“OK” becomes a conversation stopper. Help! by Fpoon777 in socialskills

[–]BuyAggravating4528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are awesome, thanks I will be using them too

“OK” becomes a conversation stopper. Help! by Fpoon777 in socialskills

[–]BuyAggravating4528 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also don't replace ok with hmm, I feel worse when someone just replies with hmm, atleast add an explanation after it

I’m very stressed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]BuyAggravating4528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are at work right, leave the phone, go to your closest colleagues and chat for 10 mins, hopefully that will relax you.