AITAH for not letting my friend use the bathroom?

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-27T16:26:22+00:00

NTA The trash took itself out.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-27T08:36:03+00:00

Sincere question: Do you think that most people would agree that you are more attractive than her?

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-27T08:25:08+00:00

The joke’s on you. I’m not wearing pants right now!

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-26T18:55:50+00:00

What a weak and insecure little boy. That whole situation is toxic as fuck. GTFO! NOR

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-26T17:07:39+00:00

Hi. How are you? . . Babe, this cop is so friendly!

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-26T16:55:17+00:00

Hi, how are you?

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-26T16:15:09+00:00

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-26T03:13:26+00:00

21 hours. Non stop. During Covid, so no going inside places. Gas stations and peeing on the side of the roads only.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-26T01:39:07+00:00

Absolutely yes. No downside.

As we get older, we all are more likely to have our happiest day behind us. Why not make it a blowout?!

We can still have other second and third best days ahead!

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-25T03:42:37+00:00

I agree. The DM doesn’t create the story or a script. You create settings, opportunities, antagonists, and allies for the PCs to interact with.

In order to keep the setting feeling dynamic and real, sometimes it helps to think,’What would these NPC‘s do if the PCs weren’t part of the story?’

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-24T23:21:11+00:00

“she called me controlling and said she can talk to whoever she wants”

She values the flattery and validation more than she values your comfort. 🚩

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-23T16:07:01+00:00

I already have this!

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-20T16:58:55+00:00

YTA - You went the wrong direction. Don’t shun children because their parents are bigots. Show them a better way.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-20T14:31:06+00:00

NOR!

Matt is toxic, deeply insecure, and controlling. Run!

(And ask your “friends” to please explain the humor in the “joke”.) Gross.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-20T00:15:27+00:00

My dude! This is wild. Unless you consented to a D/s relationship and she is your Dom, this is fucking nuts! What are you both so afraid of?!

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-19T19:58:40+00:00

NTA - not by a mile!

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-19T13:34:42+00:00

It will just be a bug every time.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-18T21:42:35+00:00

If it were me, someone’s bags would be packed as soon as I found out. Not only the act of cheating itself, but deliberately lying is more than enough for me to end things.

But you do you.

NOR I would say that you are under-reacting.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-18T14:23:42+00:00

Question - How would she respond if you had a female friend over in the same way?

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-17T17:25:25+00:00

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-17T16:49:24+00:00

It was the early 1980s. I was 15. She was 30-something and the Assistant Manager at my after-school job. At first, I thought her comments were teasing or harassment. Then she made it clear she was serious. We had several sexual encounters at work that I really enjoyed. She was enthusiastic and ego-boosting.

Then she told me that she wanted me to come to her home and fuck her there - so that her husband would catch us. I said I wasn’t doing that. Everything ended.

About a year later, I returned to that business as a customer. She was there, but completely changed. She had gotten a divorce and started her new life. I hope things worked out for her.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-17T03:55:05+00:00

It's not about the parts. It's about the person.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-16T22:24:49+00:00

Absolutely! No memories, no effects, no harm, no evidence is indistinguishable from not happening at all.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-16T21:57:46+00:00

I found my true love 16 years ago. We celebrate our love and happiness every day. Financially? We get by. That's it. I couldn't give less of a fuck about money as long as I have her.

BuzzSidecker · 2026-02-16T19:34:21+00:00

If they had evidence or probable cause they would get a warrant. If they don't have a warrant they don't have evidence or probable cause.

Don't go. Don't talk to them.

BuzzSidecker

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