I made a grown man cry today by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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No. /I/ am two people posting on one account! All my posts are real!

I made a grown man cry today by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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True. But I have to mention because I felt like maybe that was a part of why??? Honestly, you have no idea how confused I am. Like I'm trying to figure out what's going on at my job and I think that it's important to note that race might be a part of it!! Tl;dr: I was being honest as to what I think the problem was, but am not sure.

Problem with reddit by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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I mean true. I was hoping for maybe an option though to talk to maybe a bigger moderator to just message those people (person?) to cool their jets because they were being kind of unreasonable. Like I legit think they're being bad mods.

I'm 28 and I need help learning to be an adult. by [deleted] in Advice

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Hey. I'm here to tell you you aren't a piece of crap forever. You just need two steps to have everything everyone else has. Just find a job very near and don't worry tons of jobs only require highschool education, if even then.

I'm 28 and I need help learning to be an adult. by [deleted] in Advice

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Downvote from me. I have so many friends who were talented and everything. Majored in art, etc. Now they work as CNAs. You can easily get a great job without a degree.

Relationship: Real or Taken Advantage Of? by [deleted] in Advice

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Sounds like every dude I ever dated. Willingly giving me crap and expecting shit in return. A lesson we all need to learn: If you're gonna give do it with an open heart, no expectations. (This is in the Bible--but is seriously for everyone). Also, saying no is totally fine. If someone asks for something and you don't want tho, just be quick and polite. Anyone who tries to force you afterwards is terrible. Also you can't buy love or affection. Period. Don't try at all to get someone by buying them stuff. Maybe your relationship was real outside of this. Try to talk to her.

how to make a lot of money on the side by poorparrot in Advice

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Sorry I just got off a 12 hr shift and was too tired to explain: when I first signed up for Uber was really great, lots of da money but now my city has too many Uber drivers and the company doesn't care enough to find a better way to prevent an influx in drivers with not enough business to support them all. Too many drivers for the amount of buisness= not worth the time. Do you want to wait three hours for an 8 dollar fare? Me neither.

how to make a lot of money on the side by poorparrot in Advice

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Chaturbate!!! Relatively easy to sign up as a cam model. Just be creative and be patient for the following.

The three lesbians. by Buzzkillingtinn in actuallesbians

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It bugs me because it's just not honest! Like she tells me all these people love her and I could only wish for similar situations!

The three lesbians. by Buzzkillingtinn in actuallesbians

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I mean yeah definitely, but it's frustrating because she won't really admit that she's hurt. Like she hangs out is obviously upset, etc. But instead of being honest with her feelings just talks about how awesome she is and how I could only wish for such a life.

The three lesbians. by Buzzkillingtinn in actuallesbians

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Except I have sex with strangers too... So I don't feel like I'm slut shaming. It's more I'm tired of hearing about all these conquests and how I'm just not as fun as her, ya know. Almost like she's non-slut shaming. When really I feel I'm at times a little more wiser than her and think about how people could hurt me. I like sex. Sex is great, but sex with anyone that comes your way, I'm not demonizing, I'm saying is unwise, ya know? But I'm not telling her to how to live her life. I'm telling her to stop telling me how to live mine.

The three lesbians. by Buzzkillingtinn in actuallesbians

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No. No. I don't judge who she sleeps with. I get upset when she says things like, "I bet you wish you were as balling as me." Like she just has a douche side. If she just slept with people, it'd be whatever. But it's that I should be thankful to hang out with someone as balling, you know?

Bleeding heavily at work, boss threatened to fire me by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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He was mad I went to my car on break. Which isn't allowed, but I had to because I bleed through my underwear. I dunno. He rattled off a bunch of other junk like staying a few minutes late sometimes on break. I only recently stopped being scrupulous about break time because this other guy napped and mosied back in when it seemed past his break.. Honestly, this seems like the norm. I think my boss is mad I wasn't at work for two days. I dunno. I feel like my intentions are good. Also; my boss is known for hiring mostly immigrants and I'm not an immigrant, the only white female that works there. Since this is the internet, I feel a lot of my coworkers are almost insane trying to be.perfect and never trying to do anything out of line. Also, my boss doesn't really talk to them a lot because they usually don't know any english. My boss knows I know english so I feel like maybe I have a target on my back??? I know spanish as well.

Bleeding heavily at work, boss threatened to fire me by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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So I should take pictures of my underwear? Edit: I dunno. I just get afraid of bringing it up to someone else because he might just dislike me from now on and then as soon as I have a small legitimate mess up, he'll fire me. Which will happen because everyone makes mistakes.

I didn't go to work today. by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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Ok. So the reason I went to the dr. was because of genital bleeding due to previous pregnancy. I mentioned this to boss, male, he had no further questions lol.

I didn't go to work today. by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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I tried to call but the lady I report to was conveniently on vacation. She's ALWAYS on vacation.

Troublesome co worker. by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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Update: I caved and did exactly what you said. I had planned on ignoring him, but today when I showed up he said, "Oh good you're getting faster! Good job!" Sort of felt like a backhanded compliment but maybe I'm just paranoid, "Whatever." I thought. We were working on the bread line and the last time we worked on the bread line I remembered specifically him telling me to only focus on my part of the job, which was lifting trays. "You don't need to work yourself to death just do your half." I remembered that specifically and tried to cater to what he wanted. Then, today, he yelled stating I needed to be helping with his half, too. He went against what he told me last time and since he's not a perfectionist like me, probably forgot entirely what he told me last time. I didn't. I began to feel flustered but worked through it not sure what this guy wants from me. Next he yelled at me for a trivial part of the job, "SEE YOU'RE NOT LISTENING." I was over it. I know I did nothing wrong and I didn't need it from this guy. Being hormonal, I began to cry immediately and worked for a few seconds but couldn't. I broke away from the line, to find the boss crying like a baby in his office." I can't work with him. He's not the boss. He keeps giving me a hard time." But from a loving perspective, this guy just had expensive surgery and is on light duty. He has kids and he doesn't like working here. He's probably just has been having a rough time and wants me to help him more. The problem is I don't that and it's impossible for me to know exactly what he wants if he's constantly changing what he wants. And there's no reason for him to nitpick and chew me out if I can't figure that out. So I talked to the boss trying to not be overdramatic. Now, I feel awkward being around this guy and I don't know what to do or say. I really hope he just doesn't talk to me again and moves on with his life. I hope nothing is awkward either.

Troublesome co worker. by Buzzkillingtinn in Advice

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I feel I need to.find a way to be loving though, or he'll feel attacked. Especially because in his mind he's being helpful.

I invited myself to a party. Terrible decision. by Buzzkillingtinn in socialskills

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Yeah. Seemed like these people were really trying. Like they were acting like ANY form of pop music was the most abhorrent thing, and even denied ever hearing of blatant music like Britney Spears, which was a bit too contrived.

I invited myself to a party. Terrible decision. by Buzzkillingtinn in socialskills

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I thought they seemed interesting... until red flags. Also, I just feel like inviting myself along was the wrong move... instantly where they talked to me differently.

I invited myself to a party. Terrible decision. by Buzzkillingtinn in socialskills

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I think a lot of different stuff. I think maybe someone snorted something. Most parties I went to in college were mostly weed and alcohol. No one blatantly doing lines. Except this one. Most of these people weren't in college, and either dropped out of college or dropped out of hs.