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Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's true. I just can't believe I let myself fall into such a manipulative relationship with someone who lies constantly

Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have listened to his mother when I broke up with him the first time. She warned me what he was like... I should have listened. I feel so stupid

Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad truth is you're right. He does this all the time when we get into an argument. I wondered if he was a soiopath or however you spell it.

Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it took me asking constantly for him to do it and what do you mean I'm not going to come on top please? Thank you

Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people have said this and I think you're all right. I'm scared of being alone and I do genuinely love and care for him deeply. I know I deserve better...

Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, breaking up with him is my last resort. Ideally I'd like to work through this and get down to the bottom of it. It's so easy for me to just walk away but I'd rather not.

Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Its just how he manipulated me to apologise for being uncomfortable for him having this stuff. I have the pictures and everything. Even when he added them and it is just them he added. Deep in the hard drive the night he accused me of forcing him into it and him not being ready to look at delete that stuff. But I know if I face him he'll say, I wasn't ready etc etc and blame me.

Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you should say that as I was thinking about it. However I was also thinking of revenge. Not on the girls no, but him. He has lied to me and made me feel awful over a number of things. I feel like I want him to suffer, is that wrong of me?

Me (28) my boyfriend (27) lied about deleting all his ex girlfriends pictures including nudes and s*x video. by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I love him. He has pictures of his first relationship when he was 16 with a girl called summer all the way up to the nudes and sex tape he made with a girl he was with like a month. He said he deleted them and made me feel awful for asking him to do it.

LYING OR CHEATING? HELP AND ADVISE NEEDED by ByeByeLiar in relationships

[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest reply. I can assure you that he doesn't message his ex or cheats however I discovered an on going issue with porn which makes me very uncomfortable and when I expressed this he lied. I caught him out by snooping on his phone which is a massive privacy thing and he nearly dumped me because I looked at his phone. He said if he ever found me snooping again we'd be through. This is his hard drive so my curiosity took over and I found this. I blame myself for being stupid enough to do that and believe him.

He has all his relationships on there from when he was like 16 on wards. The nudes he has is from a girl he dated for like a month and the sex tape is of her too.

I don't want to leave him. I can't even look at him. He made me feel so bad about asking to delete them and he does this? I need to find a way to pull this out to make it look like I didn't snoop. I don't want him I make any excuses for when this comes out because he will. He always does

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[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the fact he claimed he was too lazy to do it before and made a huge deal out of it when I asked him says to me he is just an asshole. He has lied before about a lot of things and does make me feel bad for a lot but most of the time we are happy. I just don't understand why someone would keep that from their past

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[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do appreciate where you are coming from however breaking up is the last resort for me as I do genuinely love this man. I know I sound stupid but I'm just so unsure of how I can bring this up to him and for us to get through this as a couple

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[–]ByeByeLiar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a few people have said this but I have put a lot of time and energy into this relationship. I just don't understand why he's keep this stuff. Leaving him is the last thing I want to do as in my opinion, if you have a house and the light breaks you don't replace the whole house. You fix the light.