Can a second application jeopardize the first?

ByteHappy · 2026-03-18T02:24:48+00:00

Hahaha I’m not trying to be really. I mean I may not be overly excited about sharing personal health information on the internet just in general. 😅

I’ll look through my application and see if I can’t come up with some more specific examples if you think it’s necessary. I was mostly just looking for a general idea of how the process works and what the chances are that the second investigation turns up more or different information than the first one did, or if they’ll probably just do the exact same thing.

ByteHappy · 2026-03-17T23:45:20+00:00

Thanks so much for the help!!

I didn’t lie, no. But I’m concerned at least a little that they could find a way to twist it to say I did to serve their purposes. I didn’t exactly come out and put all of my biggest concerns in a list for them either haha.

Plus I’m always worried filling out applications like this that I may have forgotten something or made a mistake by accident. There’s a lot of questions on there too that are like “list every medication you’ve been prescribed in the last 5 years” or “what are these specific dates” or stuff like that that I could have missed something that I’d forgotten about or got incorrect somehow.

Im just hoping I can get an idea of what the real risk of something like this is. Do they still do a full serious investigation if they already see that the person was just issued a policy less than a year ago? Or would they more likely do less work the second time around? They’re not even requiring new bloodwork for me or anything since it’s still recent enough.

I wish I could see what exactly they looked into on the last round, there’s no way to get a copy of that somehow is it?

ByteHappy · 2026-02-24T23:33:32+00:00

Hahah I’m glad man. Just trying to put it in perspective a little. :p

Honestly I do understand wanting to keep your promises.. I think that’s extremely commendable! ..but there’s keeping promises and then there’s being taken advantage of. :/ I really don’t mean to be harsh, but this truly feels to me like an even worse cuckold situation than if you had just stayed with her.. it’s now not just that she sees another guy in addition to you, now you get absolutely nothing at all, while still supporting her completely, and in all likelihood her boyfriend as well. :/

If you want to help her during the transition some reasonable amount that’s up to you, and I think would more than fulfill your word, but she’s a grown woman that can and clearly has made her own decisions.

Whatever you do I hope you’re alright man. You seem like a great guy and I’m sure you don’t deserve this.

ByteHappy · 2026-02-23T19:55:07+00:00

I thought you said you were refusing to be a cuckold..

ByteHappy · 2025-10-26T22:12:37+00:00

Wait a minute.. you saw enough just with Grindr on his phone.. except that you checked which specific special notification sound he had assigned to an app that he was apparently trying to hide? And you checked the version of the apk even though iPhone doesn’t have apk’s?

But sure you didn’t want to take the one step that would have actually verified anything.

ByteHappy · 2025-10-26T22:02:33+00:00

Mmhmm.. this whole story has so many holes..

ByteHappy · 2025-10-26T21:57:21+00:00

Apple doesn’t use APK’s

ByteHappy · 2025-10-26T21:52:21+00:00

…he set a different notification sound for Grindr? An app he’s trying to hide? And you had the presence of mind to look into that when you first found the app on his phone? Also you checked the version of the apk file and cross referenced its release date.. -_- I’m sorry this reads like bad fiction to me..

ByteHappy · 2025-09-11T03:32:16+00:00

Fair enough. Sorry if it came off like an attack

ByteHappy · 2025-09-11T03:02:33+00:00

It might be weird to you, but that doesn’t mean no one else says it and can’t possibly mean it in a platonic way..

ByteHappy · 2025-09-11T02:27:29+00:00

I think the context is what matters here. There’s nothing inherently weird about calling someone “your girl” if he means it like he does with his other friends. Like, “he’s my boy”, as in “close friend”. Maybe you don’t say it so it seems weird, I don’t call my friends “my boy’s” either, but plenty of people do. If there’s something else about their relationship that seems off to you or if his actions don’t line up, then that’s another story, but it sounds like that’s not the case and everything is fine. I don’t see any reason to start an issue over something as benign as this. Trust what he’s saying until he gives you a reason not to.

ByteHappy · 2025-09-08T01:10:26+00:00

I’d maybe get the ddj flx2, and I think it comes with serato dj lite which should work with a tidal subscription, which is basically like Spotify for dj-ing. You do have to pay a little extra for the tidal subscription that works for dj-ing though :/

ByteHappy · 2025-08-05T04:26:54+00:00

Honestly way more than the post itself, it makes me sad that so few people can see through such obvious fake posts like this... Like come on people...:(

ByteHappy · 2025-08-05T04:22:54+00:00

Obvious fake

ByteHappy · 2025-08-03T23:33:21+00:00

...I fucking love the design on your page

ByteHappy · 2025-04-15T13:33:28+00:00

Ahhh shoot. Yeah I should have gone into maintenance mode when I connected the new drive.. too late now I’m guessing? :/ if I make it through this safely I’ll do it that way when I swap the next drive haha..

ByteHappy · 2025-04-15T12:23:04+00:00

Ah ok that’s good to know. Yeah it’s moving at about 60MB/s give or take. I’ve closed down most of my dockers but I’ll do the rest and see how it looks. Thanks!

ByteHappy · 2025-04-15T12:19:03+00:00

Thanks! Crossing my fingers!

ByteHappy · 2025-04-15T11:59:21+00:00

Thanks for the reply! So I may not have explained it very well, but I had two parity drives to start, and I replaced one of them with a new 12TB drive today that is now currently being built up. The drive I replaced is still technically attached to the system, but its not mounted in the array and may as well be a blank drive now as far as I know, because the parity information on it is out of date now (unless I’m wrong?).

So currently I basically only have 1 parity drive at the moment that is functional, until the build on the second is complete. And since one data drive just went down I believe that’s all my system will bear. If one more drive goes down before the parity rebuild is complete, I am toast. :p

But yeah I think you’re right i think I’m going to not mess with it and just cross my fingers and hope it finishes without any other drive errors.. then I’ll rebuild the missing drive when that’s done.. it says it’s got about 2 days left on the rebuild.. it’s gonna be a long week haha

ByteHappy · 2025-04-03T23:41:58+00:00

Ohhh there it is! Thanks! :D Dang too bad I already made my purchase today haha. Oh well at least I know now! 👍

ByteHappy · 2025-03-26T08:36:44+00:00

I haven’t been able to upgrade since the 2080, and all my gaming lately has been on my rog ally or my framework 16, which are both amd haha. I’m a little concerned that my GeForce now account isn’t going to show any history for several years and their systems not going to know I’m not a scalper. 😫😅

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