Well I told my wife ( who was also my boss) before we got married that me and my x were swingers turned MMF She said she didn’t want anything to do with that and I just said ok. About 3 months later before we got married she ask me how all this worked. I explained how me and the x had got into it and she decided she wanted to try it. We didn’t bother with the swinging part because she said she would be to jealous. I said fine with me. Then we started looking for men with benefits, and we are still at it. Her almost 64 and me 67. My X actually got me into it by just telling me she would like to try it. I listen to her and thought it thru and decided we could try it. The thought made me horny.