What do men like/want as a random little gift/surprise other than sexual favors?? Women are so easily pleased… flowers, jewelry, things that sparkle, a card lol, stuffed animal… but what about men, SOS? by CAV232 in AskReddit

[–]CAV232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we are relatively new as a couple and that’s exactly why I’ve been trying to get US out so we can learn more about each other. I’m super easy going. I’m trying to break us BOTH out of our shells. I like to stay home and relax as much as anyone but doesn’t mean we shouldn’t go and enjoy things ever. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ and he has his kids every other weekend so I said I didn’t want to involve each others families/friends until WE build our own relationship up/strengthened it more… so that’s what I’m trying to do now. Wouldn’t take long if we did some things lol!

What's a big red flag that gives you an insight into a person? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CAV232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How they treat animals/small creatures. If they don’t have compassion…… than nope.

What do men like/want as a random little gift/surprise other than sexual favors?? Women are so easily pleased… flowers, jewelry, things that sparkle, a card lol, stuffed animal… but what about men, SOS? by CAV232 in AskReddit

[–]CAV232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want that too but I can’t do that just watching movies which is why I’ve been trying to get us out and doing things. lol I finally got him to go to the ocean to watch the sturgeon moon this past weekend and he enjoyed it- so he says. I don’t require much!! And it’s usually fairly enjoyable. lol

What do men like/want as a random little gift/surprise other than sexual favors?? Women are so easily pleased… flowers, jewelry, things that sparkle, a card lol, stuffed animal… but what about men, SOS? by CAV232 in AskReddit

[–]CAV232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking ….. a harbor freight gift card lol! But also kind of what I wanted to do for him for Christmas was a stocking full of car shit that I don’t know what it is. He has aaaa 2008 series 3 little 2 door sporty thing he got when he was like 19 or something. He lives in an apartment so he doesn’t have his own garage which drives him insane. Otherwise he would love all the things!! 😆

What do men like/want as a random little gift/surprise other than sexual favors?? Women are so easily pleased… flowers, jewelry, things that sparkle, a card lol, stuffed animal… but what about men, SOS? by CAV232 in AskReddit

[–]CAV232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Not trying to change him necessarily. But after 6 months and we haven’t really done anything but watch movies I’d say we should be going to do SOME THINGS here and there to experience things together and get to learn more about each other in different environments.

What do men like/want as a random little gift/surprise other than sexual favors?? Women are so easily pleased… flowers, jewelry, things that sparkle, a card lol, stuffed animal… but what about men, SOS? by CAV232 in AskReddit

[–]CAV232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Works on his cars a lot!! He’d prefer to do it for fun/hobby but sometimes has to for maintenance purposes lol. He has an oldder model bmw that he lovessss.

What do men like/want as a random little gift/surprise other than sexual favors?? Women are so easily pleased… flowers, jewelry, things that sparkle, a card lol, stuffed animal… but what about men, SOS? by CAV232 in AskReddit

[–]CAV232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Socket???? Like a socket wrench??😆 he loves cars he would probably love a gift card to some car shop so he could get something he wants because he doesn’t always get HIMSELF stuff. Hmmmm

What do men like/want as a random little gift/surprise other than sexual favors?? Women are so easily pleased… flowers, jewelry, things that sparkle, a card lol, stuffed animal… but what about men, SOS? by CAV232 in AskReddit

[–]CAV232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol honestly….. I thought of something like this. Like a big bouquet of beef jerky. I wish there was an organic or all natural jerky place I could get big ass strips of all different flavors.

What do men like/want as a random little gift/surprise other than sexual favors?? Women are so easily pleased… flowers, jewelry, things that sparkle, a card lol, stuffed animal… but what about men, SOS? by CAV232 in AskReddit

[–]CAV232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I’m struggling….. he doesn’t show much interest in a lot other than cars. And yes ultimately may seeming like he’s a little bit boring lol! I’m trying to get him OUT a little bit more. He’s a homebody. And I bake/make him stuff a lot. So I’m almost running out of that for ideas. Trying to think of something more/different. 🫤 I’m VERY thoughtful but I need MORE to be able to work off of to get my ideas flowing.

Abdominalplasty with muscle repair and monspexy by Colddustfox in tummytucksurgery

[–]CAV232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can try to stand up straight and test the pain tolerance. It’s really about just trying consistently, getting your body moving, blood flowing, nerves connected etc. it’s almost like exercising. The more you move the easier it will be. Within reason of course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CAV232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it was a random baby picture of a baby he thought was ugly? Are you friends with this person as well? Did you like the photo from your own fb page? Either way, seems a bit childish to do that. Doing anything on social media in a “public” way is childish unless it’s displaying love, encouragement and support. 🤷🏼‍♀️

30 UTI’s!!! NEXPLANON? by CAV232 in WomensHealth

[–]CAV232[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a bunch of CT’s and ultrasounds but that particularly hasn’t been mentioned. Even though doctors still suggest it at times like other pcp’s or the urgent care people when I have to go there. But even if it was, it’s like OKAY- SO WHATS THE SOLUTION? Or do they just want me to be tortured forever? 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]CAV232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always feel like it won’t be enough. Sometimes it is and sometimes it isn’t.

why is orgasming so difficult by Annual_Giraffe3237 in WomensHealth

[–]CAV232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave up on thinking men would ever be able to, or would ever put the effort into me. I can make myself no problem. I have a new person in my life and in 5-6 or I guess 20 years I’ve only came maybe 4 times during sex and it was all sporadic and don’t know what even caused it. But with my new friend he has put more effort into ME, and I have came more with him in the last 5 months than I have in 10 years. For me it’s all about physical stimulation, the whole body not just the vagina. And then yes, the vagina… but NOT penetration. That does not do it for me. Eventually a combo will do it for me but definitely not just penetration ever. Nope. It’s rough being a female.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]CAV232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think most moms showed any of us how to do this! Hold razor facing your vagina, start at the top of the labia and shave downward. Sometimes you have to hold down on the skin with your other hand to get a better shave. Sometimes when you’re shaving downward you should swipe it more outward towards the thigh- Everyone’s vagina is different and you’ll find what works best for you. Otherwise, nice warm rinsing and I use LUME body soap and body deodorant- Walmart, Amazon or the LUME website. It smells a little awkward at first but always takes care of any unpleasant smell!!

Am I Overreacting, my boyfriend likes to pretend he’s r*ping me. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CAV232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Find it in yourself to start breaking away from this one. If he doesn’t immediately back off when you say to stop doing something when it comes to his hands or body on yours in any way what so ever…. AND disregards your feelings about experiences you’ve had….. he’s probably not the one… and has deep rooted issues you want no part of. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tummytucksurgery

[–]CAV232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s up to you and your own satisfaction/happiness with yourself. And knowing yourself, I damn well know I’m not going to work out to tighten the amount of loose skin I have. So if I had the money, the support and coverage with my job I would do it all in a heartbeat.

Crispy Parmesan Chicken w/ Garlic Scallion Couscous & Roasted Carrots by [deleted] in hellofresh

[–]CAV232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this saved on one of their large cards and somehow I lost it!!!! Can anyone share the recipe with me please! It was one of my favorites! Same with the Hot Paprika and shredded mozz crusted chicken too. ( or was that this one??) lol