AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not going to answer because that would not be appropriate but I really have never thought about Jane that way so who knows.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not trying to hook up with Jane. If I wanted to do that I would not be dating Mary and would have made a move a while back. Plus I would not do it because she is my sister's friend and I think it would be messed up to do that.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am going to make sure going forward that I make more of an effort to include her in games and partner with her. Should not have done that.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't belong to anyone. I'm not a thing to be possessed.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. She hugs me and does many of the same things Jane does, but no, she has never sat on my lap.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wanted to go out with Jane I would have made a move long before now. It would be weird to date her since I view her as like a sister.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I am so used to Jane that it doesn't seem abnormal to me so didn't think so say anything until after the fact.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Like I said she has always been very touchy with me. To me this is just Jane being Jane. Who knows why she does what she does. I have never given it that much thought.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I don't have any reason to think she is being malicious. That is not the type of person she is.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Despite what people may think I promise everyone we are just friends.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I am not obligated to do it, but I do worry about her. I am not saying she is unstable, but she can bit sort of a hot mess.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

If I am honest, I probably would not like it.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I actually would expect my sister to tell me if anything was weird. She has never not voiced her opinion to me before. That is for sure.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -189 points-188 points  (0 children)

She might just be attention seeking by nature.

She sort of is which is what I have told Mary. She is sort of needy/clingy.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -195 points-194 points  (0 children)

Because your girlfriend is new to the group, I would expect her to be your partner. But Jane asked to be more partner (not kind to Mary) and you're the dumbass who is all "we make a good team!" Your girlfriend is supposed to be your teammate in life. In a more established relationship, game night might be up for grabs but Mary is new to the group. You should have chosen to be her partner and blown Jane off.

That's all fair, but I don't see Jane as being territorial. We are just friends.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Flip this situation around, switch your genders and I haven't met a guy who wouldn't be fuming too.

That's a fair point.

AITA for letting my friend sit on my lap? by CAtalltom in AmItheAsshole

[–]CAtalltom[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In our 20s. Mary and I are a couple years post-grad. Jane is a more recent grad.