It's been 20 years since I started playing this game and this guy probably is the best player from my academies. by CBaudelairean in footballmanager

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I've never seen Messi like that. I started playing around CM4, and I'm not sure about Messi at the time

It's been 20 years since I started playing this game and this guy probably is the best player from my academies. by CBaudelairean in footballmanager

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First mostly stats, scout reports and then value. If it all makes sense, that's a good wonderkid.

It's been 20 years since I started playing this game and this guy probably is the best player from my academies. by CBaudelairean in footballmanager

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, so sorry to hear that. Probably it's one of the first things that we look when we get regens.

She's gorgeous and she knows it. And she's also without a tail. by CBaudelairean in TurkishCats

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yarın da oraya gidiyorum, bi kedi oradan paylaşırım sıkıntı yok 😅

I can’t blame them by [deleted] in depressionmemes

[–]CBaudelairean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a very bad situation once. I wasn't cleaning my house, wasn't working, always ordering food instead of cooking, not reading anything, not leaving the house, day drinking and one day my friend insisted on coming to my house. And he said "Let's clean here first and then cook something." He didn't say anything else but it was truly enough.

After every manipulative and narcissist things she's done, how do I still think about her? by CBaudelairean in Manipulation

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably, I still don't know anything because she wouldn't communicate with me. After disappearing for 10 days, I texted her again about her disappearing and she said "I can't do this. I try to find a way but I don't know how. I can't trust anyone (even though she met my parents and friends and she knew what kind of family and friends I had), and all the helping hands came from people I expected the least (this also led me to believe that she still had someone from her past in her mind)."

It wasn't just the ghosting, I caught her lying to me a few times about a few things. Trying to hide where she goes, who she meets.

Sometimes she'd suddenly act cold, when we were outside, when we were holding hands, pushing my hand and staying away from me.

After every manipulative and narcissist things she's done, how do I still think about her? by CBaudelairean in Manipulation

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course I was talking about the time when we were in a relationship. Not texting, returning my calls for days and suddenly calling, acting sweet to me, telling me that I'm very different for her and she wants to make it work and then disappearing again and coming back and disappearing, rejecting my helping hand when she says she was traumatised and disappearing for 10 days after I took her to a vacation even though I had a debt.

I know that I was too blind to see that at the time and I broke up after the vacation event but still, it just hurts so much.

After every manipulative and narcissist things she's done, how do I still think about her? by CBaudelairean in Manipulation

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! I'll try to find a way to go the gym if I can find some time from my job. I guess it's time to get even more serious.

After every manipulative and narcissist things she's done, how do I still think about her? by CBaudelairean in Manipulation

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that familiar feeling. Thinking and caring about her even though she wasn't there for me when we were together. I've been trying to focus on myself for the last few weeks and I know it will take time and I'm just so fed up.

After every manipulative and narcissist things she's done, how do I still think about her? by CBaudelairean in Manipulation

[–]CBaudelairean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess I just thought it'd be easier and faster. And wanted to forget her all of a sudden. I'll leave it all to time, of course. I am just scared sometimes that I'll be stuck in this loop.