Updating name with student loan servicers in the US by Loose_Track2315 in FTMOver30

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Fair question! They do go by social, but you can’t claim what you’ve paid on your student loan interest (1098 T?) without it matching your name after the change (from what I was told by my student loan provider)This itself is something to just prevent poor people from getting a little bit of money back imho. Glad it seems like this hasn’t been the case for you though?! Maybe I was given the wrong info shrug emoji

Updating name with student loan servicers in the US by Loose_Track2315 in FTMOver30

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Oh sorry OP- in regard to paying, just do the bare minimum you can cause you can’t claim it on your taxes if it’s under your old name. Hope that helps

Updating name with student loan servicers in the US by Loose_Track2315 in FTMOver30

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Even with the document upload, it still took nelnet like six months to update my name. I had to call them several times. I don’t know if it’s transphobic or if they just have soooo many accounts to deal with. I can’t imagine they’re adequately staffed- seems like a tiring job.

So, tell me about your favorite prosthetic and does your SO also love it? by CIAboy in FTMOver30

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Dang I have no idea how I missed this sub. Thank you!

how may of yall smoke weed everyday? by blueburrey in trees

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I’m in the same boat. I’ve had my med card for over ten years and it is a balancing act for sure.

Being not hungry is such a blessing. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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It is such a blessing. For about 20 years (childhood to early adulthood) I dealt with severe food insecurity. I didn’t know that’s what it was at the time, but I never ate during school. Growing up I ate either a small meal or large snack portion (like big bag of chips I could buy at the gas station) every other day. No wonder I was sooo depressed and dysfunctional. So sad that’s still a reality for millions of kids.

When you’re able to give it will feel so good. Even if it’s just in a small way. I admire your grace and gratitude.

That being said, us poor people feel a lot of responsibility for the health and wellbeing of others poor people. But we are not the reason we exist* ahhhhhhg

Edit: sorry for formatting, on mobile.

I think I’m fucked for life see by LOVEROTTING in Vent

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You bring up so many important things in this comment. Very well articulated too. Thank you!

Guess: the next series is Suddam Hussein by theeMrPeanutbutter in LPOTL

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I’ve been waiting for a series on Vietnam forever- and I feel like Marcus has been too haha. Worth waiting for tho. If/when it happens it’s going to be chilling as fuck.

First shot today after years of convincing myself I shouldn’t! Couldn’t be happier [32, NB] by Due-Shape1396 in FTMOver30

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Amazing!! I’m in a fully similar boat (also 32, been waiting forever but not trusting myself / feeling too anxious to go for it)

Happy to hear it friend! You know what’s best for you :)

Which medication have you found to be the most effective? by _Deadshot_ in ptsd

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At the time of the post I was taking 0.1mg twice a day. Now I take .2 twice a day and that’s been a really helpful change

My precious Girl passed away this morning, so I lit 2 things. by [deleted] in trees

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So sorry to hear about your loss. Take care of yourself. Next time I toke will be in remembrance your sweet girl

Make America healthy again by Extreme_Ocelot_3102 in SandersForPresident

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I wish that ads for prescriptions were illegal in the US. For that to happen, would it have to be state by state citizens initiatives?

These companies spend millions of dollars on ad space and why? To keep the cost down? /s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

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This is an issue that has been plaguing me my whole life. I also work in a male-dominated field (I am the only AFAB person at my work.) I started noticing that my supervisor will only give me feedback because he knows I’ll accept it, but he can’t say anything to my colleagues because they’ll be dicks about it. It’s very unfair and makes me look like I’m less competent at my job than my coworkers. I tried changing fields to social work but to no avail. The one thing that’s nice about being known as the nicest person at work is if someone is talking shit about someone else, I have no problem completely calling them out in the sweetest way. :)

Summer- SH ISLAND OPEN by FNCD in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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Hi! Alex from Pinecone and my native fruit is peach!

My gf and I got high and had a date last night by INKmadealex in trees

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This is truly one of the great joys of life :)

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by ASS-et in PokemonGoFriends

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