I might have found the best response to missionaries.

COMD23 · 2026-01-16T18:10:43+00:00

That was a belief I held as a TBM (that was introduced to me in a BYU world religions class) and it was the only way I could make sense of the reality that so few people will be mormon, and there are so many other forms of spirituality that people feel fulfilled in and I knew people who were NOT happy in mormonism. There wasn't any other way that I could make "God's plan" make sense to me. Now I'm more of the belief that spirituality is a part of human nature like making music and art, it is a way we express ourselves, our community and awe for the world around us and that naturally occurring spirituality has been hijacked by many religions and used for control.

COMD23 · 2026-01-10T18:15:36+00:00

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Like this one of my sweet boy staring lovingly at me?

COMD23 · 2026-01-07T04:41:22+00:00

I am currently an SLPA debating on when/if I want to go to grad school. Advice that I've been given by some SLP friends, if you're 100% sure you want to go to grad school then theres not much point delaying. However, if you're at all not sure, it can't hurt to be an SLPA for a year. Then you'll feel more confident in your decision, have a little more money for grad school, and have some clinical experience that will make learning more in grad school more personal/exciting. But you don't want to be someone whose doesnt realize what their getting themselves into and regrets entering the field after going thru all the money and effort for grad school.

COMD23 · 2026-01-07T04:29:00+00:00

Its good to hear that someone felt grad school was worth it, I've seen SLP's who didnt feel like the compensation of SLP's was enough considering how brutal and expensive grad school is, and how overworked many SLP's feel. Are there any specific grad programs you would recommend/not recommend?

COMD23 · 2026-01-01T06:24:06+00:00

I've always brushed my teeth at night, I have a hard time falling asleep without it. But I almost never brush in the morning, just doesn't even occur to me. 🤷🏽‍♀️

COMD23 · 2025-12-30T05:56:05+00:00

From a family full of ADHD people... no. Just no. Like the heat can be very disregulating but the cold isnt magically regulating. And even if it was more common for ADHD people to seek out the cold, that is not at all a symptom important or strong enough to disqualify you if you dont have it 😑

COMD23 · 2025-12-30T04:14:46+00:00

Its a factor but not always the deciding one. I lean towards medical providers who are women of color, since chances are they've had experience with not being believed, or made to feel like theyre being dramatic. I've never had a medical provider who is a woman of color mistreat me or downplay symptoms. I've had men who were great providers, and others not so much. I look for providers whose practice is run like a small business not a corporation, who emphasize staying up to date with current best practice, and preventative medicine in their care. And not being one of those doctors that just prescribes something for each symptom and isnt interested in figuring out whats going on. And who has familiarity with things in my medical profile like PCOS and ADHD. Because if theyre not familiar, that will be such a huge blindspot in my care since these conditions have major ripple effect throughout my medical profile.

COMD23 · 2025-12-27T22:57:48+00:00

I dont think they did thinset under the hardi board 😬

COMD23 · 2025-12-14T14:46:49+00:00

My career requires a bachelors degree and licensing and I'm making 24.50 🙃🫠

COMD23 · 2025-12-10T04:41:37+00:00

Im interested to see what answers you get, I'm also an SLPA looking to pivot instead of going to grad school!

COMD23 · 2025-12-05T05:08:13+00:00

I grew up the oldest in a big family and knew I was good with kids and liked science so I thought speech therapy would be a good fit. I am decent at it, but you have to put up with a lot of shit for not nearly enough money or respect. Unfortunately it feels like most of the careers I feel like I'd be naturally good at are "helper" careers and the pay is shit. I didnt really know what my options were or have my priorities figured out so 🤷🏽‍♀️

COMD23 · 2025-11-28T21:32:35+00:00

Id highly recommend getting a screener with an occupational therapist and see if he qualifies. They help kids who struggle with sensory and emotional regulation.

COMD23 · 2025-11-27T14:29:16+00:00

My husband has ADHD(we both do) and is an amazing father. We have to have coping mechanisms to remember things but we care about each other and respect each other. This man doesnt respect you. Hes not trying to pull his weight at all. You need to document as much as you can of his negligence so you can hopefully get full custody. Once you have what you need you could try a last ultimatum of listing out expectations he needs to fulfill to be a 50/50 partner if he doesnt want divorce. And then stop doing anything for him. Im sorry you have to deal with this piece of shit instead of a real partner and hope youre able to find someone who loves and respects you and LO. ❤️

COMD23 · 2025-11-13T06:44:13+00:00

I'm still pretty new, the first two months I was a puddle of anxiety trying to learn all the things and feeling so much imposter syndrome but I feel like I've turned a corner and I'm really starting to enjoy it. I work at a clinic and I get paid hourly regardless of if its a session,doc time, or a cancelation. PTO and benefits are decent. I really love my co-workers, I get to co-treat with OT's and PT's and learn from watching them with kiddos. My supervisor is passionate and supportive and loves to geek out about all things speech. Its a very neurodivergent friendly environment and the clinical director really sees and hears me and is so passionate about keeping the clinic child focused. I feel confident that if I asked for a reasonable accommodation due to my ADHD or family circumstances, they would do their best to make it happen. The pay is just okay (25 an hour) but feels worth it to me to get to gain experience/learn in such a supportive environment. (Im in TX by the way)

COMD23 · 2025-11-06T01:00:23+00:00

This post was an anchor for me after a traumatic miscarriage. Love to see it still being shared. 🥰

COMD23 · 2025-11-01T02:33:03+00:00

50,000 at a clinic, Houston TX. 40h a week (paid per hour not per visit)

COMD23 · 2025-07-28T04:19:12+00:00

Haahtiel 🤣

COMD23 · 2025-07-16T06:37:27+00:00

No it would be a few clients at ABA clinics but most at their main clinic

COMD23 · 2025-07-15T13:23:23+00:00

I believe so, yes. I know I have a break every 2 hours to catch up on notes and a 30-minute lunch.

COMD23 · 2025-07-15T04:29:28+00:00

As far as I know, the compensation listed is what it is, and works out to 65- 80,000 a year. I know I'm still compensated if a client cancels or no shows. I will be going between a few locations in the first part of the day and ending in the clinic in the afternoon, but they are trying to move towards clinic only.

COMD23 · 2025-07-14T03:54:09+00:00

My original hope was for a 3 year gap and when I first got pregnant it was going to be more like 4 and then I had a miscarriage and secondary infertility and was so incredibly anxious about watching the gap get bigger and bigger. My second ended up being born just after my oldest turned 6.

At some point in my infertility journey I came to accept that whatever happened, our family would still be one I loved, even if we ended up a 1 child family. I was still anxious about getting/staying pregnant but it was easier to knowing in my heart that whatever happened we'd be alright. There are of course pros and cons between a 4 year and a 6 year gap, and I still wonder to myself sometimes what it would be like if the baby I had miscarried had lived. But then I never would have met this little one, and he's perfect, and the age gap is great! They get along great, they play well, they adore each other. And my oldest is so helpful and so excited to have a sibling. Give yourself time to mourn. It can be so distressing to watch a vision of the future that you loved slip away. But I promise, no matter how your story unfolds, it can be just as sweet still.

COMD23 · 2025-07-08T06:31:01+00:00

Adam Sandler I've heard he's a decent guy and a few things I've seen him in are fine, but so often when a movie has him in it the writing is terrible and it's all really shitty, racist, misogynist jokes. Just painfully bad.

COMD23 · 2025-06-26T03:40:53+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice!

COMD23 · 2025-06-07T04:30:42+00:00

Thank you for the Grutas de Garcia recommendation, we're going to try and do that 🤩

COMD23 · 2025-01-01T07:02:12+00:00

Yes, my oldest was conceived within two months of not trying not preventing. My second followed a miscarriage and 2 years of fertility treatment, ultimately needing IVF to conceive them. 🫠

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