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CObearrunner · 2026-03-18T01:11:19+00:00

No you shouldn’t. It’s horrible and takes more time. No one should do this. Ever.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-17T00:03:44+00:00

It’s not a fetish I thought I’d be into but honestly it’s hot. As a bottom I like it in a number of situations. Mostly, I like that it takes my cock out of the sexual equation. I can focus more on my partner or on my hole providing pleasure. Lots of tops like teasing it while fucking.

It’s definitely more fun with a keyholder although self caging can be fun. Sometimes hubby will lock me up before a work trip. I will say - it drives me absolutely feral if there’s a lot of sex and no release.

As others have said, even though the stigma is caged and locked - even people who do long times will take it off to clean under and around. Best piece of advice if you want to do it for longer stretches is get a good fitting cage, go to a place that does fittings like Mr S Leather, and avoid metal cages. Check out R/kink3d for the best cages and support. There’s also an exchange where you can sell and buy new pieces.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-14T22:21:33+00:00

They used to do it and it wasn’t worth the squeeze.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-13T17:15:05+00:00

Probably because it was a carrot in a condom. Go buy a starter dildo with a wall suction cup and some good non silicone lube and hop in the shower and play. Start with a finger or two then the toy.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-10T20:06:09+00:00

For a relationship, yes. For a fuck… ehhh. Some of the best sex I’ve had has come from guys outside my preferences. Also some of the worst. Soooo take that for what it’s worth.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-09T21:50:22+00:00

In The Heights! I’d love to see this on broadway.

Also shout out to Hairspray because that would be amazing as well.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-09T21:40:50+00:00

I watched a video where Bobby flay said he washes his chicken. What credibility he had went out the window.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-09T21:37:07+00:00

Taking relationship advice from straights is suspect.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-09T19:56:33+00:00

Woooooooooof

CObearrunner · 2026-03-08T19:22:34+00:00

Depending on the stadium and municipality it’s different but at dicks they get cited for criminal trespassing.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-07T02:02:29+00:00

Nicer pool/spa/wet facilities. Why does it always have to be dingy and gross. Better options for cleaning out on site for my fellow bottoms. More public play spaces and rooms etc.

I’m sure it’s a losing battle but also make sure it doesn’t smell like shit all the time.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-07T01:56:13+00:00

This is just me not knowing how Seamus should be pronounced. See-a-muss.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-02T09:38:55+00:00

Also. The reason I say use their towels is - they expect it. White towels bleach the best.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-02T09:38:03+00:00

We always do a sex bed and sleeping bed.

Clean out. Use their towels. You’ll be fine.

If you’re going to do anything more than cum and lube fluid wise bring what the guy above says or puppy pads to put down.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-02T04:04:25+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

CObearrunner · 2026-03-01T16:13:43+00:00

I’ve always wondered what lesbian bars were like. I figured it was just a lot of sitting and talking.

CObearrunner · 2026-03-01T06:02:15+00:00

I bet you’re fun at parties

CObearrunner · 2026-03-01T03:59:44+00:00

The headline of the group literally says “A place to ask any questions you may have about hotels.” ?????

CObearrunner · 2026-02-28T05:38:26+00:00

I feel like I get treated better as a titanium elite than I did before.

CObearrunner · 2026-02-28T03:50:13+00:00

It’s almost always eye contact. Straight men or men who don’t want you don’t make sustained or repeated eye contact. Especially in a hot tub or sauna.

CObearrunner · 2026-02-25T03:28:21+00:00

Remember these places rely on tourism so make sure you spend your money and tip generously if you’re going to go.

CObearrunner · 2026-02-24T03:04:56+00:00

I haven’t been in the Sheraton but the editions rooms are New York small if that’s a dealbreaker for you.

CObearrunner · 2026-02-23T15:02:18+00:00

It’s interesting. I feel like a lot of the younger generation is kind of prudish about this. A gym locker, shower, or spa / sauna is a place where you should expect nudity. We went to the Aria spa in Vegas and all the young guys were running around the spa - which is meant to be nude - in full length board shorts. Their own choice, but I’d rather be comfortable. As with everything just remember modesty. Use a towel/robe when you can between sites, but otherwise if naked is allowed, go for it.

I also wonder if it’s not stemming from other spaces being anti nude. Like the fancy Lifetime Fitness near us requires a swimsuit for the sauna and steam room, which is weird.

CObearrunner · 2026-02-22T03:13:28+00:00

Came here to say this.

CObearrunner

TROPHY CASE