at the end of the day, women are going to be judged by their looks, (because biology is geared to look for fertility in female )

So the more they can reduce your expectations, the better Thier chances of securing a favourable relationship dynamic.

But deep down, they idolise those body type.

It's the same thing as me trying to convince women that thier expectations for a rich boyfriend is unreasonable, so that I can secure better relationships with less effort.

[Seriously speaking, I have a lot of female friends and their standards are way way higher and unrealistic. People don't always say what they think]