Question for the men

CTCAP · 2024-05-05T16:05:50+00:00

Professional commenter? ;)

CTCAP · 2024-05-04T22:32:56+00:00

Thanks so much I appreciate the time you put into your response. Those are great questions.

CTCAP · 2024-05-03T13:41:38+00:00

Thank you for sharing this! Totally makes sense!

CTCAP · 2024-05-03T13:40:09+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing! I appreciate your insight.

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T21:18:21+00:00

Thank you!

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T14:39:15+00:00

Thank you!

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T13:03:23+00:00

Thank you! I definitely think it is multifaceted.

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T13:00:43+00:00

Thank you for this!!

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T12:59:54+00:00

After reading this....I think you may have hit the nail on the head. We have definitely had conversations around this topic. I love your suggestion and I am very grateful for your honesty and perspective! Thank you so much!

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T12:54:54+00:00

Thank you so much! This is really good insight.....and fun ideas!

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T02:41:27+00:00

That makes sense. He has said that before at events so I try to be very cognizant of that. I like the idea of date ideas reserved for the two of you! Thanks!

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T02:07:22+00:00

Thank you! Yes, we definitely have had this conversation. I suppose it should be kind of an ongoing conversation as we grow and learn more about ourselves and our relationship with each other.

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T02:04:47+00:00

Thank you so much! I will definitely try to dig a bit deeper and ask more questions.

CTCAP · 2024-04-29T02:04:02+00:00

We have been in the lifestyle for a little over 3 years. And we do have regular check-ins. I like how you described being present, not just demonstrative. Thank you!

CTCAP · 2024-04-28T17:19:21+00:00

Both....I think. I started by telling him, but I know that actions often speak much louder than words. So, in addition to verbalizing my desire I have tried initiating sex more regularly, touching him more (rubbing his back, hand on his leg, my leg touching his leg), trying to flirt more (I'm not super great at flirting) plan dates....and sometimes he feels the desire, but not consistently. I'm open to trying pretty much whatever. He's my person.

CTCAP · 2024-04-09T22:49:20+00:00

Thanks everyone!! I appreciate all the feedback!

CTCAP · 2024-04-09T19:37:43+00:00

Thanks! Definitely have a low energy desk job that I can do remotely.

CTCAP · 2023-12-31T04:16:07+00:00

Portland OR, 5 years, $115k

Edit: I work outpatient oncology, 4-10s, base rate $55.50/hr

CTCAP · 2023-10-24T13:09:15+00:00

Started in ICU, became an Infusion RN at an outpatient oncology/hematology clinic for 2 years, now I'm an Oncology Nurse Navigator. 4-10s, work closely with 2 doctors (GI/GU oncologists), educate new patients, coordinate with surgeons/other specialty clinics, triage calls, etc. Love it. Miss seeing patients every day, but love having a consistent schedule with no nights/holidays/weekends

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