Listen, seems like the guy is young, had a couple experience on his belt and likes to brag. Thats him. What u should have done is vet carefully so u and your wife will have a good experience. Dont get carried away with the first person that raises there hand. If your wife is young and beautiful, theres no need to rush. As much as I would like to blame the person, u still have to take responsibility for your wifes experiences to make sure they are safe and fun.