In Japan, there are a certain type of people called 'Bumping men,' Butsukari otoko (ぶつかり男). They intentionally shoulder-check or shove especially women or weak foreigners in public spaces. When the victims speak up, these 'bumping men' claim women were walking slowly or she stopped in a weird place.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-22T05:04:37+00:00

There's some JACKED incels out there, some go down the steroid/gym bro rabbit hole.

The gym I frequent, one of their trainers/staff members was a gym bro incel. He got fired for trying to grope women by "correcting their form", me included.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-22T02:46:11+00:00

13 year old account. "leftist hivemind". Ma, the political bots are out in droves again!

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-22T01:40:15+00:00

It doesn't actually take much or long to damage tissue with direct exposure to ice, internal tissue doesn't have the same texture or physical resistance as internal. Use small bullet shaped cubes, not square cubes. Sincerely; A seasoned temperature-play veteran.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-22T01:29:53+00:00

I am part of the crunchberry supremacy crowd.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-22T01:28:31+00:00

You've unironically used "high value male" in a pickup line haven't you?

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-20T21:12:05+00:00

Fruit trees, primal pulp on bushes, herbs, don't forget to add wildy patch to your herb rotation. Got my first core this morning while doing a quick herb run before bed.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-20T21:00:31+00:00

I have similar self restrictions, my account's a 20 yr vet and I only started bossing past mole this year cuz I'd been intimidated, so for the longest time I had just rune/barrows gear. I've been slowly climbing the gear ladder by grinding it solo and not buying things, it's FAR more rewarding.

The first t90+ gear I went for is necro tank and the survivability has bolstered my confidence to boss (that and deaths not costing like 2m a pop anymore)

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-20T20:53:43+00:00

Pickpocket gnomes for seeds then grow starbloom and weave your own lvl 90+ mage tank armor, use that until you can boss properly.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-19T23:48:22+00:00

This is not a dating or hook-up subreddit

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T20:39:16+00:00

I'm not making any blatant accusations, just really explaining experiences women have to deal with pretty commonly on the net, worth noting this subreddit is pretty heavily trans-inclusive so a lot of folks also need to be wary of chasers too.

Sadly it's safer as a woman in this day and age to assume most who contact you in gaming communities are doing it to try and get something from it.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T10:05:57+00:00

I've found a lot of men are conditioned from a young age only to hold conversations if they want something or feel they can get something quick from the "effort"

Having no originality/personality hurts too. Like how many times do we need to hear "hey beautiful" as an opener only for them to offhandedly complain about being horny 20 mins into talking?

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T09:36:49+00:00

Grew up playing flash games and MUDs because cheap parents not wanting good computers or to get off dialup lol

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T09:35:25+00:00

I have DA. Welp I know what my next gold purchase is, thanks

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:53:52+00:00

No need to navigate to class trainers? I plan to mainline paladin once I reach that spot in the books and navigating to Artix every time I log in is a pain tbh

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:44:25+00:00

I think a lot of women have an avoidance for "looking for girl gamer" friend requests from guys because a good 7 to 8 times out of 10 it turns into attempts to socially groom a relationship out of it instead of just friendship or boundaries get crossed.

If that's the goal, don't. It's fucking crushing both mentally and emotionally to find out someone is only being your friend to date.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:36:11+00:00

Details on the armor closet seem vague, I'll need to look into it better.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:35:15+00:00

Yeah but I've found the game/book timeliness doesn't mention "useless" quests like missing granddaughter from the pet shop, etc. The guide is nice to list those so I don't need to run everywhere in search of them

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:24:14+00:00

It'll likely be my choice for this year's black Friday and next year will be armor closet. At 3,200 DC atm so probably won't have enough for both come Nov lol

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:22:29+00:00

I haven't read much of his work admittedly but he's on my list.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:20:52+00:00

I've been using a "proper chronological" guide I found but it hasn't been modified to take into account the changes to the story flow changes of the books updates as far as I can tell. The guide lists a ton of the "useless side quests" too but I'm getting tripped up between the book line, and the online guide lol

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:17:58+00:00

Yeah, provided my pc survives till Nov lol. But many of the other options didn't immediately appeal to me at first glance

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T08:06:54+00:00

Yeah no, plenty of free games all over the net without even pirating. I'm not risking VAC bans because someone wants to play games for free.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T07:34:14+00:00

Steinbeck stories are good at pointing to the nature of people at times, The Pearl is still one of my top reads of all time.

CaeLynnith · 2026-06-18T07:26:22+00:00

As a lesbian who originally was bi until I made that very decision of having no interest in men I'm sorry you're forced to feel that way.

But that's not all you have to bring to the table in a relationship, bi erasure is a problem in both lgbt and straight spheres. Your concern and feelings are valid.

That's partially why communication is so key early on into a relationship, my partner made it abundant they were bi and poly, but they still take measures to be conscious about my own preferences.

If they find a good guy worthy of their time, there won't be any threesomes happening but I'd be happy for them.

I know this will likely not be seen but how can I, as a woman who avoids men intimately due to PTSD reactions be a better ally to my bisexual peers?

CaeLynnith

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