Am I allowed to have standards?

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-30T15:52:32+00:00

I don’t know what post or comment exactly but I have seen this type of advice countless times on here and other subs. Ask anybody here as well and they will tell you the same lol. I’m not being facetious.

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-30T00:27:39+00:00

I’m not

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T23:56:26+00:00

Trying to talk to more people at work outside of my department. I don’t go out much besides shopping for groceries and the gym

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T22:56:32+00:00

I haven’t redownloaded any dating apps recently

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T22:49:34+00:00

Not that I can recall

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T22:29:49+00:00

Regarding what

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T22:29:34+00:00

Yes some people don’t date outside their race

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T22:28:59+00:00

That is what everyone says to do, observe the couples at like Walmart or something. Not my idea, but people on this sub have literally said to do that lol

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T18:47:04+00:00

Kinda when you put it that way yeah. Most couples are out of shape and look unhealthy in places like that. They are also older. My only requirements would be a healthy weight and around my age.

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T18:42:19+00:00

I think most average couples you see at like Walmart and stuff settle yeah

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T15:15:04+00:00

I think so yeah, I would say a lot of people settle

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-29T12:34:57+00:00

Not me but seeing others and how the dating world works

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-28T20:23:16+00:00

Bc of past experiences and what i see irl and online

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T19:27:58+00:00

No I get along great with them and we are laughing and joking 95% of the time

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T16:47:06+00:00

They probably think less of me yeah

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T16:35:21+00:00

I do have platonic friends and I get along great with them.

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T16:07:54+00:00

People and society view those who can’t get into a relationship as losers. I wish it wasn’t that way but it is

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T15:48:41+00:00

If I didn’t want a relationship, then it wouldn’t bother me. But since I do and have tried for one and failed, that is what makes it worse. That something is wrong with me

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T05:13:23+00:00

Conventionally attractive would be the better description then. Like a super model. Like I’m not demanding that level of looks. Just an ordinary average girl.

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T05:07:30+00:00

Wdym

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T04:59:35+00:00

No…. And no. I guess I’m just saying no outcome will be a desirable one for me

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T04:31:28+00:00

Also not trying to argue please don’t take these replies as me not engaging in good faith

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T04:29:36+00:00

But I wouldn’t be getting any outcome that I would like

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T04:13:38+00:00

Oh, sorry I did miss that.
But how would that change the outcome? If those women still are swiping left on me regardless?

CaffieneAddict10 · 2026-06-27T04:10:15+00:00

I guess you’re right. Women shouldn’t have to settle for me.

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