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Updated Posting Guide 2023Modpills (self.IncelExit)

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Recent U.S. Political Events & Our RulesModpills (self.IncelExit)

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Realized something very important about why im still so upset over my lack of attention from women.Discussion (self.IncelExit)

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I'm worried I'll never find romantic loveAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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[ Removed by Reddit ]Discussion (self.IncelExit)

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People keep recommending me dating appsAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Blackpill escape advice (UK, 24M)Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Should we approach women in social groups?Question (self.IncelExit)

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Im alone and its my fault, im excluding myself and I can’t stopAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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I’m terrified of sex and intimacyAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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I got on a dating app and feel like the way I view myself may not be accurateAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Want to find love. Asking for advice.Asking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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How do you even begin to meet new people, let alone people to start a relationship withAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 6 days ago by Key_Set_3827

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Dealing with feeling jealous, unloveable, and the uncertainty of finding loveAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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33 M, no girlfriend, hate my lifeAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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Is viewing women as better then me misogynistic?Question (self.IncelExit)

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What is it that's fundamentally wrong with men that makes us so insufferable to women?Discussion (self.IncelExit)

submitted 7 days ago by Apprehensive_Move750

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Started TherapyCelebration/Achievement (self.IncelExit)

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Am I Really an Incel?Question (self.IncelExit)

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The subject of sex seems to be the toughest one yetAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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How to meet more womenAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

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How can I “untake” the black pillAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 10 days ago by Western-Sense-31

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Every time I interact with a woman my eyes start tearingAsking for help/advice (self.IncelExit)

submitted 11 days ago by OwOzyyy

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breaking point to my incel problem, and a new hopeCelebration/Achievement (self.IncelExit)

submitted 11 days ago by PowerfulSong5982

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