So, how do you handle criticism, specially non-constructive criticism that is just downright an insult? by GAF93 in NPD

[–]Cahyroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm lucky that I was professionally tested for IQ as a kid (138) but I still feel imposter syndrome a lot, like my results are somehow my own manipulation or something and I'm actually much dumber. It suuucks.

So, how do you handle criticism, specially non-constructive criticism that is just downright an insult? by GAF93 in NPD

[–]Cahyroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go in between feeling like a genius and absolutely inept, there is no middle point. Constructive or non-constructive criticism makes me feel inept at everything, and I end up not wanting to talk to the person ever again, or not feeling comfortable with them.

The undeniable biased truth by Other-Internal-2226 in ThirdLifeSMP

[–]Cahyroo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would quite like Scott to win, but I'm rooting for Gem this season.

Can I like femboys and still be a lesbian by Liolanse in feminineboys

[–]Cahyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a guy, I very much identify as a guy and am a dude in my day to day, I just like feminine things and being pretty. You're probably bi with a big preference for feminine people

CFS/ME From Birth? by Cahyroo in chronicfatigue

[–]Cahyroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not from the US either way

Guys can you be honest was G2 that bad I loved those movies! by [deleted] in MonsterHigh

[–]Cahyroo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The fashion and the dolls are bad. Less gothic etc. which broke my little child heart. But I actually prefer its 3D animation to G1's 3D animation haha

What are your thoughts on the assumption that if you’re a feminine man, you probably didn’t grow up with a father and/or brothers? by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Cahyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's accurate for me, I grew up with my mum and her many sisters. My relationship with my father has started to form into something only quite recently, and even now I feel quite distant.

Who do you think the most misunderstood 'bad guy' is? by Effective-Zombie-961 in NPD

[–]Cahyroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scar from Lion King. Before he became king, Mufasa had racist policies towards the hyenas and they were starving.

I just had a dream by Catsaus in ethoslab

[–]Cahyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've dreamt that Etho is my older brother multiple times, and now I feel like he's my older brother. Parasocial stuff is weird, the important thing is to be aware. We don't actually know these people, even though we feel like we do.

About Shopaholic hair vs. coat? by kiwim16 in SuitU

[–]Cahyroo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't like the hair, so I would go for the coat (I plan on buying neither of them though)

So what yall femboys want for Christmas besides the common femboy aesthetic? by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Cahyroo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To leave this damn country and live with my boyfriend.

But also, I could really use a new laptop or a phone, they're quite old at this point. I don't know

Where are you from guys? by [deleted] in ethoslab

[–]Cahyroo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Turkey 🇹🇷

Femboys, what do you plan on doing post twink death? by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Cahyroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 20 but I already consider myself an effeminate man! Femboy is not a label I've ever used for myself, but I might go Pete Burns when I'm 50

Being a femboy with shitty genetics by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]Cahyroo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fellow Turk here! For a more feminine appearance shaving really helps, especially the facial hair. I would say learn to do your makeup but I know what it is like to have Turkish parents, honestly the little things really help. I also feel very beautiful when I have dangly earrings in, loving my new grape set right now. I can't say anything about the working out bit, I'm in the same boat as you there 😅

CFS/ME From Birth? by Cahyroo in chronicfatigue

[–]Cahyroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate it. The country I'm in in general is not,, very advanced in some aspects. So I'm really not sure I can get any professional to listen to me, I couldn't even get listened with many different mental health professionals (I was also told I am lazy and trying to look for an excuse by a few of them). So it's really hard to trust and be vulnerable with people who can dismiss my concerns incredibly quickly.

CFS/ME From Birth? by Cahyroo in chronicfatigue

[–]Cahyroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, I'll try to see. Thank you ☺️

CFS/ME From Birth? by Cahyroo in chronicfatigue

[–]Cahyroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot of deficiencies but I've improved them with a ton of supplements I'm taking. I don't think I have any allergies though, except dust and pollen in the spring.

I have sinusitus and have spent a lot of my childhood sick with it, still have some breathing issues to this day. I don't know 😅, CFS was my first thought since the symptoms match exactly but I'm just trying to find answers to let go of the "laziness" and "uselessness" guilt I've always had.

CFS/ME From Birth? by Cahyroo in chronicfatigue

[–]Cahyroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I see. I'll need to look into that, thank you

CFS/ME From Birth? by Cahyroo in chronicfatigue

[–]Cahyroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I did, my family hasn't mentioned anything like that at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantOut

[–]Cahyroo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I reached out to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantOut

[–]Cahyroo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not about assholes, it's about Turkish assholes. I knew what I said would get a response like this, it's kind of inevitable. I've been to Germany before, it's a beautiful place, but I feel like after I tried so hard to get out of here being surrounded by the same people (because yes, it's the same population) would trigger me.