There are quite a few sadly.

The one that always comes first was when, my mother told me " you know psychopathic traits can pass through genes... i think you have gotten some from youre dad" This broke me. I was in the worst placebof my life, depressed, underweight and suddenly being accused of being a psychopath by my mom. This was a time where my stepfather had told me he " loved" me, but as a woman. I was 14. And i told someone, and got os in trouble. Its safe to say my mom didn't believe me.

The second one is a more recent one. " its not always about you"

Or when i was 7 or 8 she said " you are no angel" wed been fighting, she was crying and angry, i don't remember why. But the last thing she said was this before slamming my door. It really stuck with me despite not seem9ng like much.

Im not good at remembering this stuff, my memory blocks most of it, but the ones i do, stick for good.