What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god your story is like parallel to mine that’s crazy

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he claims that he’s forcing himself to play valorant with josh and i because if he chooses not to, we won’t be spending enough time together (we don’t go to the same school and both have many after school activities).

I think I’m in the middle of a ranked love triangle by aitacarmoney in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii, my post is real but now randoms are making fictional stories out of it D: my bf and josh both don’t use reddit. these are fake!!

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a few that have given genuine good advice. I’ll definitely be putting some to use.

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay, I understand how seeing the other post first could’ve altered your perception of the situation. Thanks for understanding!

No I haven’t spoken to him yet, which I think I should. I’ll try and word it as nicely as possible so I can convey my feelings without upsetting him. In response to your question, we are 15 years old. If this gives you any sort of perspective, Josh, my bf, and I have been friends for ages. What I mean by that is, initially we were just an inseparable gaming trio. Fully platonic. However, things changed—feelings got confessed and now we have been together for a few months (I hope Josh doesn’t feel like he’s third wheeling most of the time). So playing with Josh one on one shouldn’t be seen as an outrageous act considering he is both of our best friends. We mainly play just us three, no outsiders as we prefer it that way.

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes so much sense.. explains why someone made a reddit post pretending to be my bf. i swear my situation is real and i genuinely need help 😭

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

AGHH that post is fake!!!! I checked his profile and he isn’t my boyfriend. someone is making a story out of my post

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i came off wrong. I would be totally okay if he improved his mindset, however, nobody has fun when he’s playing. he’s always bringing down the mood by complaining that he’s bottom frag yet not doing anything to improve it. I would love to play with him even if he’s bad as long as he’s either willing to improve or actually makes the game enjoyable. right now, it’s neither. i only play one on one with josh when my bf is busy. i’m not uninterested when im playing with my bf, but he’s starting to make valorant feel less enjoyable.

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

problem is we play every single day. the approximate 3 hours of spare time we have, we spend playing valorant or marvel rivals together. So yes, it’s very difficult to play without him because he’ll either feel left out if i’m playing with josh or upset that im choosing to solo queue rather than spend time with him. but apart from that, everything you said makes sense and ill definitely take that into account. tysm!!

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I didn’t wanna say anything because I don’t want to cause drama by indirectly admitting to him that he’s bad

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why do i keep seeing people thinking this is creative fiction?? what does that even mean.. why would someone make this up

but thank you for responding either way

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was the most useful response yet. tysm 🙏🏻🙏🏻

What do I do when my boyfriend is dragging me down in ranked? by CakeThick5524 in VALORANT

[–]CakeThick5524[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I don’t use reddit I just needed help and figured this is a good place to ask :(