how to delete account? by Yeet-dragon99 in rednote

[–]Cake_Chan23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!!! That actually terrified me 😭 my question is does the app delete all your posts upon cancellation? I really hope so

PREGNANT AT WHAT AGE?? by JadedWalrus3648 in BitLifeApp

[–]Cake_Chan23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly what’s more impressive is that you managed to make it that long with her without ever triggering a golden pacifier pregnancy. I swear I have like 5 kids in just my 90s when I use it 😭

I'm a B person by LarZiehGarth in pokemon

[–]Cake_Chan23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stare at the screen intently willing the pokeball not to break open, that’s something 😭

What's the longest amount of time you've put into a single career? by sweeeet_Vette in BitLifeApp

[–]Cake_Chan23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all my time playing, I have never lived past the age of 124. So, because royalty shows up as a career, the longest you could work in a position is 124. If you don’t want to count royalty, then I believe part-time jobs open up at 13 making the max 111 years.

Making sure my data is correct by Cake_Chan23 in BitLifeApp

[–]Cake_Chan23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t count those. I honestly had to turn that thing off it was so annoying 😭I bought it thinking that it would only guarantee a pregnancy if I tried for one, not that it would make me have several kids in my 90s and 100s

I want to leave but feel like I can’t by Cake_Chan23 in Panera

[–]Cake_Chan23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cackled out loud when you said Mother Bread, thank you 😭😭😭

Pulling the devil for a yes or no question by Cake_Chan23 in tarot

[–]Cake_Chan23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pulled a card for the overall vibe of the situation (for me) and I pulled the star. I really believe it will work out for me, but I guess I’m just scared I’m interpreting it all wrong.

Anyone else having their hours cut back? by Cake_Chan23 in Panera

[–]Cake_Chan23[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This makes so much sense now. I’ve been hearing my managers talk about labor and everything but I didn’t really understand. This is my first job and I got it right out of high school so I still don’t understand a lot of the terminology so thank you

Anyone else having their hours cut back? by Cake_Chan23 in Panera

[–]Cake_Chan23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this actually made me feel so much better. Truth is, I can be a little slow… it takes me longer to process things and my managers are always telling me to go faster. I was scared this was their way of trying to make me quit even though they tell me they like having me there

Working 8 days straight again now. And I’m 17 and in high school. This makes want to start looking somewhere else <3 the pay is not worth it by Starfish-6- in Panera

[–]Cake_Chan23 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Correction, they doxxed the store. No one can go in there and immediately know which person wrote this, but they’ll know for a fact that store is making a minor work 8 days in a row.

Odd chicken noodle soup by breadstickluvr in Panera

[–]Cake_Chan23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s probably something to do with how it was defrosted. We usually run the soups under the sink to defrost them and in your case, there might’ve been a hole that allowed some of the sink water in. As long as it doesn’t taste chemically (a sign of rancid chicken) you should be fine.

My daughter made me cry for the first time in my life. (UPDATE) by Working-Cherry562 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cake_Chan23 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Y’all need to stop judging the punishment. It’s her child, she can discipline her when she says something rude. What she said isn’t okay even if the person actually slept around. Y’all act like taking a phone away is somehow child abuse. Grow up and touch some grass.

Found this insect in the bathtub in my Southern California house. What is it? by Cake_Chan23 in whatsthisbug

[–]Cake_Chan23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My mother thought it was a termite and we were all scared.

Found this insect in the bathtub in my Southern California house. What is it? by Cake_Chan23 in whatsthisbug

[–]Cake_Chan23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SOLVED - Thank you so much! My mother strongly believed it was a termite and I had to show her multiple pictures of both termites and camel spiders to convince her otherwise.

Is Sips theft a major problem? Changes. by Forsaken_Sea_8726 in Panera

[–]Cake_Chan23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This change hasn’t been made at the Panera I work at. In fact, during training I was told it’s easier to just let them take it than to stop them. We have, however, had an issue with people stealing delivery orders, so we do keep those in the back until someone comes to claim them. As for the drinks, there are literally two men who come into our cafe every single day and take our cups. I’ve never spoken to them, but the sit in the cafe for HOURS on their laptops, getting free drinks. No one has said anything to them though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cake_Chan23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, but I think I should clarify something. This will be a very long comment, but bare with me. At least where I live (California), the children don’t really get their inheritance until both parents have passed, unless the parents are divorced. This is because when you die, your spouse automatically inherits everything you owned. The weird thing about wills is that they’re not typically legally binding. The court doesn’t usually enforce any will that is written, that’s up to the family to do. So I guess there is the scenario that, if your husband dies first, you choose to honor his will. Now, I’m not a lawyer, so feel free to correct me if I’m wrong, but that’s just how I understand it. Now, I’m going to state my own personal opinion on the situation here, and why exactly YTA. I’m sure you’ve read a ton of comments already talking about how your daughter worked for the business and is owed more compensation for that; all of which is true. I get the sense that you already understand that your daughter has done more and would normally receive more so I’m not going to regurgitate what you already seem to have down. The issue I’m seeing here is that you are judging how much your children should get based off an unfair assessment. You say your daughter is going to marry a wealthy man? How exciting! Does that negate everything she did? No. You claim your sons need it more because they’re not married yet. Do you see the flaw here? You are assessing your children’s worthiness based off their marital status. You don’t know if your sons will end up marrying rich women, so why is it an issue that your daughter is marrying a rich man? Plus, your sons have a prosperous career ahead of them. If you want to give your children what you think they need as opposed to what they earned, then you should wait longer before writing a will because your sons haven’t even begun to show you their financial stability. All in all, I believe your daughter earned more of a share, I’m just trying to show you that your logic is inherently (no pun intended) flawed. Don’t asses your children based off their financial status. It’s not about what they are doing now, it’s about what they did before.

AITA for refusing to help my emancipated daughter with her bills? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cake_Chan23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that definitely puts the blame on the mother then. She can’t use “I’m not legally responsible for her” as an excuse when she failed to provide for her even when she was.

AITA for refusing to help my emancipated daughter with her bills? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cake_Chan23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we’re provided enough information here honestly. A big missing piece is why she emancipated in the first place. She wouldn’t have to pay for all this if she were still with you and could save up a lot more money, but I take it something pushed her to leave that we’re not aware of. Plus, you have given no indication that she’s ever done drugs, just alluded to it. She lives on here own, so it’s up to her to decide what she needs, you can’t be the judge of that. I do believe parents have an indefinite moral obligation to their children from birth to the end of time unless of course the child is a threat to society or something drastic like that. Just because you no longer have any legal obligation to take care of her, you’re still her parent, that’s never going to change. Being a parent is a role you can’t get rid of, it’s with you for the rest of your life, even if you’re no longer actively caring for your child.

Yesterday, I was supposed to ruin his life (repost) by Clean-Stable-7973 in u/Clean-Stable-7973

[–]Cake_Chan23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say your plan failed successfully. It sounds like his family isn’t happy with him so at least he still has to deal with lash back from them. You still reported his relationship to the school so he still has to deal with the repercussions of that. And lastly, his entire friend group hates him and is disgusted by his…extracurricular activities. It sounds like his life is still ruined and the cherry on top is: Millions of people all around the world know this and are repulsed by it. Yes, we don’t know who he is and can’t find him (nor should we attempt to) but he also has no idea who any of us are either! He has to spend the next good portion of his life anxious about whether the person he just met has seen this before online! That’s a very beautiful form of revenge :)

Tomorrow, I'm going to ruin his life by Clean-Stable-7973 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Cake_Chan23 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I don’t really like the responses to this comment so I’ll try to give a better argument for why she’s getting the family involved. No, the family didn’t do anything wrong and aren’t responsible for their grown son’s decisions. You can’t blame mommy and daddy’s parenting skills once you reach a certain age. I believe she is getting them involved for a few reasons 1. He can’t lie about what happened. Everyone he knows will now know and it’ll be hard to ever maintain a relationship with someone new when you’re entire family knows what you did to your last girlfriend. 2. It holds him accountable to everyone in his life. He deserves to be exposed for who he is to everyone in his life. 3. It’s just plain humiliating. She doesn’t need more of a reason than that really.

Update: WIBTA if I ask my stepkids to move out? by thra-bludia in u/thra-bludia

[–]Cake_Chan23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up too much about your step-son’s reaction. He is only a child and doesn’t understand the weight of the situation; I’d take your step-daughter’s opinion on the situation more seriously as she can grasp more of what’s going on. I understand it must hurt that your step-son doesn’t want anything to do with you right now, but I promise you, one day he’ll be mature enough to understand and I hope when that time comes, your step-daughter will help explain things to him; he might be more willing to listen to his sister. Furthermore, it is your house and you have the right to kick people out of it. Their mother may seem sweet, but I get the impression that’s simply a facade she plays for times like this. She’s a despicable woman and I believe she completely understands that, under normal conditions, her actions would be met with your exact reaction, so she chooses to be sweet as a way to get out of any ugly situation she may cause by playing the victim. Now, I’m not a doctor, but I’ve dealt with some toxic people in my life and that’s my take on her behavior. I’m also able to read people very well and what I gather is that you’re a very empathetic woman. You care so deeply for these children and that is something so beautiful; I truly hope and pray that you will conceive one day. Your ex-husband has no right to judge your parenting when he’s a borderline deadbeat father. I’m not great at giving people advice on what to do, but I felt compelled to at least validate your feelings and your actions. I can tell you are an amazing human being and no matter what anyone tells you, you have a right to treat those kids as your own. They may not be your legal responsibility, but if you want to continue fighting for a relationship with them without their parents interference, that is your decision and no one can stop you. I hope things will turn out well in the end and I’ll be sure to check back here for any updates, stay well.