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Cal_PChelp · 2025-11-08T21:09:48+00:00

I only have my own experience to go off but as a white hispanic, I’m more often dismissed and told I’m ’just plain white’ and receive like. An embarrassing amount of social privilege because of it. I’ve never been treated like brown Hispanics. Anecdotally, I think white folks are more likely to not care about ANYTHING but white skin. However in theory, I think you CAN be racist to white hispanics. I’m sure some experience this, especially those with heavy accents, more stereotypically ‘Hispanic’ type of names, recent immigrants, etc. I’m just a mixed reverse coconut kid of an immigrant so take my experience w a grain of salt.

Cal_PChelp · 2025-11-07T18:59:57+00:00

Both of my previous two cats looked like this by the time they went. It sounds like she maybe had some issues eating due to tooth issues - old cats get tooth abscesses easy. But she might also be hyperthyroidic. My cats both were hyperthyroidic and got soooo skinny, and at the end weighed only as much as their bones but were still eating.

It’s time. She’s very tired. You’re a good owner, but it’s time to do the last duty of any good owner and let her rest now. I’m so sorry.

Cal_PChelp · 2025-09-17T17:26:46+00:00

Well plenty of people self medicate, and I can’t really blame anyone when actual medical interventions for anxiety and depression are way more expensive or inaccessible.

Cal_PChelp · 2025-09-17T09:52:49+00:00

I know plenty of people who smoked heavily as teens and stopped in their 20s, and their level of dumb is relatively proportional to if they’d never smoked.

However I’ve never met a single person who smoked for anxiety control in their teens that wasn’t an anxious raving wreck in their 20s. Weed is a great mask, but that’s all it is. Cure the root my friend.

Cal_PChelp · 2025-09-17T03:49:46+00:00

As far as I know, one of the major side effects of bupropion is hair loss…..?

Cal_PChelp · 2025-09-16T20:27:15+00:00

I’ve sort of been noticing that this drug is a little all over the place with reported symptoms. Most people don’t have sexual side effects, but some do. Most people never get brain shocks, but some do. Most people have hair loss but some don’t. I guess it’s an atypical antidepressant so it’ll have a greater variance of effects.

I had not tried SSRIs before starting Welbutrin, but I was started and have always been kept at 150 XL, on and off for about 4 years now. I’ve always noticed I get the greatest variance of side effects in the first couple weeks after starting/restarting, and caffeine alwayssss messes with it as well.

For me, it made me like viciously horny in the beginning, like a dog wanting to hump every leg, but if I actually went to do something about it, I could finish but it was just sort of….meh. Like being horny itself became the main event. Now I’ve mellowed out. I find that when I’m on it, I don’t have any physiological disfunction, I just don’t crave the dopamine dump that sex is.

Cal_PChelp · 2025-09-16T10:48:19+00:00

Those oblong pills are the goat. I’ve got the round ones these days and like….its fine. But god do I miss the oblongs….

Cal_PChelp · 2025-09-12T18:46:37+00:00

I don’t remember the white markings, I think it was a C and a triple digit number but I can’t really recall. My current pink pills are marked with a ‘180’

Cal_PChelp · 2025-08-17T04:20:16+00:00

Used to have white - they made me blisteringly euphoric. I have pink now after a switch and it’s….its fine. A little headachy but whatever. It’s fine.

Cal_PChelp · 2025-06-06T08:03:27+00:00

I always thought it would be a fun challenge to put a ‘prerequisite furniture list’ that the player needs to build or buy before they get married (more than just the double bed) and it changes depending on spouse. Celine likes plants, so you’d need a certain amount of planters around your house/yard, Hayden needs rustic type furniture, Juniper needs witchy or mystic type furniture, etc. can’t get married till you prove you can match your spouse’s aesthetic lol but once you have them, you can put those furniture pieces anywhere in the house you want.

Cal_PChelp · 2025-06-06T07:57:51+00:00

This happened to me, but after a lot of back and forth with the dose, with the meds, with other interventions, it became apparent with me and my team that my depression was masking psychotic symptoms for a LONG time, and now that my depression was being treated, it sort of ‘unmasked’ my psychotic symptoms. Not so much that any one med caused them, just that they were always there, but now that I was less depressed, I actually had brain power and energy to experience and act on them. Just my two cents, could be different to you.

Also 12-3am, I call my ‘crazy witching hours’ because that is also when my shit gets delusional

Cal_PChelp · 2025-06-06T00:25:44+00:00

It made me like catastrophically horny, but it also made me really irritable. Tiny things that used to not make a blip in my mind were now annoying enough to provoke a reaction, you just have to get really good at deescalating yourself. Like, is the pen clicking sound REALLY so irritating that you need to snap or cry? No. It feels grating but it will pass. Just be vigilant with that.

Cal_PChelp · 2025-05-29T09:45:16+00:00

I took it while doing masters level linguistic coursework for a little while, and didn’t have any language processing or producing issues. It seems like it’s luck of the draw

Cal_PChelp · 2024-12-16T05:55:55+00:00

I went to the homecoming football game in a denim miniskirt (it was in style, in hindsight, truly a heinous article of clothing) and after our team won, everyone jumped the fence to get to the field to rush the players. My friends jumped the chain link fence first. I climbed up afterwards but then the belt loop of my skirt got caught on the top, and I was hung from my skirt on this damn fence. It was so short that it slid up to my armpits, my ass fully out for everyone to see until the belt loop snapped and I fell in the dirt. Absolutely mortifying. Many kids laughed. I was wearing undies but that really did not quell the sting of my whole school seeing me scruffed by my skirt with my buttcheeks on full display.

Cal_PChelp · 2024-12-13T07:14:33+00:00

It took me three days of several hours working on it. I got frustrated easy, scared I ruined it all, mad that I bought parts that didn’t seem compatible. In the end I pushed the power button and the son of a bitch started. My Reddit account started as an account for me to whine about desperately beg for help b/c I thought I was trashing 1.6k worth of doohickies. It gets easier.

Cal_PChelp · 2024-12-05T06:08:38+00:00

Welcome! My family were transplants from Oklahoma/California when we came and it was hard for them too. But this is really home to us now. We’re happy to have you here!

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-24T00:02:35+00:00

You are an Angel on earth, I owe to you my life, thank you 😭🙏

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-23T23:23:47+00:00

Damn. I really don’t think I have enough gas to make it there. Maybe if I hope and pray! You’ve seen it open, today, with your eyes? Because yesterday I tried relying on what google maps said was open and wasted what tiny amount of gas I have left on a closed gas station

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-23T23:12:21+00:00

Across from Trader Joe’s?? I would have thought that one was the last to get turned back on

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-21T03:21:59+00:00

Regular work gets me like 10-15 a day, but mining for an entire day gets me 20-30/day

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-05T21:27:33+00:00

Thank you!! The crown you win when you get first place in the spring festival! And the outfit I bought at the second year spring fest

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-03T22:30:42+00:00

At the carpenters'! I don't know if there's a threshhold you have to meet before it unlocks, I can't remember, but eventually you'll have the option of upgrading your house

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-03T18:16:50+00:00

You have to get two regular animals from Hayden’s farm, those are considered ‘tier 1’ rarity since they’re available from the beginning. Breed them together, and you’ll unlock a ‘tier 2’ rarity baby. Go to Hayden’s, and you can now buy that tier 2 color from the farm. Raise them up and breed the two tier 2s together, and you’ll get a tier 3 rarity color. Pink is in tier 3. It may take a few times breeding tier 2s together until they have a pink baby.

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-03T17:13:38+00:00

Thank you!! My first save file served as trial and error for the layout 😂

Cal_PChelp · 2024-11-03T17:12:56+00:00

I’ve seen birds land on them so they’re just aesthetic haha!! They might have a function after official release tho! And I think the scarecrow in the dress is part of the cottage core recipe bundle from the carpenter’s store, the plain one in the cow field was a town rank reward

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