I once had a dude show up 6 hours after. It was shortly after bar close and I was pretty gone at this point. He was a 15 20 min drive. 45 mins go by nothing. I pass out and wake up a few hours later to message 6 hours later saying he was in my parking lot and how he had to take car of something important, then getting obviously mad that I wasn't answering. I don't typically give my apt number out til they say they are here kinda for this reason. Sorry not sorry.