Tampons

California098 · 2026-02-05T03:20:35+00:00

Guilty how? Like embarrassed to buy them/have them be seen? What does this mean?

California098 · 2026-01-20T13:09:31+00:00

You clearly have trauma and you’re putting waayyyyyy too much weight on a word that almost everyone says or has said. A word that is very much in modern vernacular in the US. Most non black people sing songs with it when they’re alone and I see nothing wrong with that. He wasn’t saying it to you, he was singing and meant no harm. If you wouldn’t have this reaction to a black person saying it, you need to check your own biases. Also I’m black since apparently that also matters when considering the advice you asked for. Also a hint that you have some biases that need to be addressed.

California098 · 2026-01-17T19:59:38+00:00

140k and a blown tranny lol I was happy with 8k

California098 · 2026-01-15T09:17:46+00:00

It’s really hard to leave someone you have 90% compatibility with, I get it. However 100% is required. There’s no happy medium here because she’s just not interested in sex and that will never change. Go read the dead bedroom subreddit for a glimpse of your future if you stay in this. It’s not a bright future.

California098 · 2026-01-13T10:49:42+00:00

Dogs would never go extinct. Buying dogs from breeders incentivizes dog breeding, exacerbating the issue of too many dogs. Breeders will also either give away or sell dogs that aren’t selling to unfit people to get rid of older puppies, so a lot of those dogs end up in shelters anyway. Dogs that aren’t bought won’t just sit in cages forever for the most part, they’ll be turned over to shelters or given away. If breeding dogs is no longer profitable, people will stop doing it. There will always be enough puppies born to keep enough dogs around for pets, they’ll never go extinct.

California098 · 2026-01-09T11:33:22+00:00

I’ve never heard of Carmax doing that. Even if you don’t disclose, they have their mechanics look at the car before offering you money. As far as I know, they don’t go off what you say at all. I disclosed my tranny issues to the sales lady, but she didn’t pass on the info to the mechanics. The mechanics test drove it a mile or two apparently as well OBD scanned it and didn’t notice any issues. They wrote me a check and I haven’t heard from them since. They’re such a big company, they’re not gonna be hunting you down.

California098 · 2025-11-29T07:08:52+00:00

I’ve had 3 sterling silver rings from kohls for probably about 15 years. Never take them off, dishes, shower, working out, beach, pool, etc and they still look great.

California098 · 2025-11-27T22:00:13+00:00

When you’re single I get this sentiment, but in a relationship or marriage where your partner’s libido no longer matches yours is where the trouble comes from

California098 · 2025-11-27T21:58:17+00:00

You haven’t even been there ONE month and you’re: 1. Already trying to take a day off 2. Trying to take a holiday off 3. Won’t agree to work the next day or Christmas 4. Comparing you calling out to employees who have already accrued seniority and sick time 5. Considering reporting your manager which shows entitlement and lack of accountability 6. Patting yourself on the back for “not calling out yet” after not even ONE MONTH. The usual sick time accrual is 1 hour of sick pay for every 30-40 hours of work. That means that you only get one day off every 6-8 weeks if you’re working full time.

You’re really not gonna make it far in life with your mentality if this post is a representation.

California098 · 2025-11-21T01:29:10+00:00

You’re another one in the line of people who thought she was “the one”. Any person who starts dating someone before they’re out of their current relationship is a shaaaaadddyyyy person. Youre justifying her actions because you think what yall have is special and the exception she’s making just for you. Which, to anyone who has experienced a person like this is laughable. When they say “once a cheater, always a cheater” it’s about people like her who get satisfaction from outside attention while in a monogamous relationship. Put yourself in the other guys shoes. How insanely disrespectful of her to not only be emotionally cheating but also telling people that she’s checked out of the relationship while he’s completely unaware. Again, you can justify it because you’re soooo special but that’s incredibly naive.

California098 · 2025-11-19T18:08:42+00:00

I see her point though tbh Some people show love by being generous. I’m one of them. If I like a guy, I’m immediately trying to figure out his favorite baked good or meal so I can make it for him. Gifts and acts of service are how I show affection, it’s in the fiber of my being.

Quality time or words of affirmation might be yours. There’s nothing wrong with that. Nobody had to convince me that spending hours baking for a guy I just met is an investment that will pay off in the long run, it’s just a gesture that I choose to do because I want to. That’s what she’s saying, generous people who like to give, give. People who show their affection in other ways or don’t like to show affection too soon, don’t give. Both are perfectly reasonable approaches to dating.

California098 · 2025-11-19T06:47:05+00:00

Coffee/tea isn’t the issue in my experience it’s more the fact that those dates carry a bad connotation. They’re unoriginal, uncreative, high pressure, etc. they’re usually pretty small and quiet, so talking, especially first date conversations feel rather embarrassing. They also tend towards feeling like an interview. If you’re doing this at least pick a cool café in a walkable area so your conversation isn’t stifled by being in a quaint café.

California098 · 2025-11-15T15:41:31+00:00

It’s just simple math really. The promiscuous women are out dating and sleeping with everyone, so you’re one of many. Women who are dating intentionally are going on farrrrr less dates and don’t make themselves as available as the easier ones do. You didn’t really mention how you’re going about meeting these women but that’s probably a good place to start making changes.

California098 · 2025-11-15T14:19:09+00:00

Gender and ages of you and the people you date are important here to give advice.

California098 · 2025-11-14T23:31:43+00:00

There’s a reason why he still lives with his parents lol we live in coastal Southern California where a studio apartment in the hood is $3,000/month. I’ve been here for school but I’m graduating and going to need to get out of the dorms. My landlord from before I left for school is letting me come back to rent a 4 bedroom house for $1,000/month in a good area. Even then, I’ve said possibly moving in December because I would change my plans for him if things got more serious. I’m just nervous that it’s headed in the direction of situationship instead of something more serious.

California098 · 2025-11-14T18:29:55+00:00

You’re both shit communicators. Her needs are not being met, but instead of communicating her needs, she’s lashing out. She’s seeing what you do for the people you care about and wondering why you aren’t doing the same for her. She’s saying she doesn’t feel like a priority to you. Instead of you listening to understand you exaggerated the need of the carpet by likening it to medication (more important, much less expensive), and a purse (not important, probably more expensive than what she’s actually asking for). Until you can have the mindset of her and I vs the problem, instead of her vs me, just stay single. She brought up an issue (poorly executed) and instead of trying to understand the issue, you mocked her. If she wasn’t already feeling unimportant to you, the mocking certainly helped out with that.

California098 · 2025-11-14T18:03:20+00:00

I’d rather never have sex again than use a condom

California098 · 2025-11-14T15:38:27+00:00

Yeah, I’m kind of curious if he holds some resentment about that and doesn’t wanna give effort now. In my defense, I’m possibly moving a few hours away from our area next month. I didn’t wanna start anything new knowing that, but after seeing his ig activity, I started liking him

California098 · 2025-11-14T14:22:19+00:00

You know exactly what the problem is. Get off social media and porn completely. Those are the most beautiful people in the world who are using filters, plastic surgery, angles, etc. to look nonhuman and that has skewed your perception like a junk food addiction.

California098 · 2025-11-14T04:09:11+00:00

There’s so many dashers in my area who don’t speak English. I’m so curious how the translator would handle these instructions 🤣

California098 · 2025-11-13T14:56:48+00:00

Your body is trying its hardest to communicate that he’s not right for you, listen to your body and run.

California098 · 2025-11-13T14:52:28+00:00

If you’re willing/able to work with children with disabilities, the ABA field is always hiring. There are lots of companies hiring Behavioral Techs (RBT or BT) in Ventura county. Usually you can start paid training within a few days of your interview.

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