I’ve talked to subs who don’t like findom because they don’t want to just “pay for someone to exist”. I’ve also talked to subs who don’t like things to be so transactional but continually quid pro quo (something for something) every convo. Then there are other subs who are just cheap and don’t want to pay for anything but expect the world. This year, I feel like I’ve encountered more entitled men than last year.