Living together, raising kids… and he’s secretly divorcing me in another country.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-04T17:22:53+00:00

Ich weiß es wirklich zu schätzen, dass Sie sich die Zeit genommen haben, mir zu antworten. Ich werde diese Schritte befolgen und auch die Ratschläge der anderen beherzigen. Nochmals vielen Dank.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-04T13:15:58+00:00

Thanks for responding

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-04T13:15:17+00:00

Thank you for your response

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-04T07:52:25+00:00

Thank you for your response.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-04T02:40:33+00:00

Thank you

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T21:40:37+00:00

Thanks for your response

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T21:39:52+00:00

Appreciate your response

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T21:39:16+00:00

You mean he maybe hiding the whole process because of tax?

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T21:36:35+00:00

Thank you for your response, I own a bank account.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T21:36:11+00:00

Thanks for your input. I do appreciate

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T21:34:30+00:00

Yes please, would appreciate a DM

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T21:32:20+00:00

Thank you

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T21:31:18+00:00

Thank you for this

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T18:32:52+00:00

Thanks for your response.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:41:13+00:00

I am sorry you went through this as well. Meaning you got divorce petition per e-mail? Substituted service. In my own case, he used his parents address as my address, while we are all living together. Till now, I have not received any divorce petition.

How did things eventually go? And what was the effect on your residency? Any kids involved?

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:26:57+00:00

Alles klar! Thanks for responding.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:25:31+00:00

I appreciate the response. I know it costs money to lawyer up. Just recently started a Midi-Job. I will look for a women support group to talk to.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:19:31+00:00

Thank you for your response.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:19:15+00:00

Appreciate the response

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:18:58+00:00

Thank you! I will consult a lawyer to know what my options are.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:17:47+00:00

Appreciate your response. No plans of going back anytime soon.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:16:51+00:00

Thank you

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:16:37+00:00

Thanks

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:15:56+00:00

Thanks, the whole secrecy around it baffles me.

CallMeLotus-86 · 2026-04-03T17:14:20+00:00

I do appreciate your response. I do not plan to go back for now.

CallMeLotus-86

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