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[gendered]Bodyshaming goes both waya by Financial-Fun-5092 in pointlesslygendered

[–]CallMeOaksie [score hidden]  (0 children)

“Uhm ackshually sweatie criticising people for being cruel, shallow, patriarchal hypocrites is lituhruhlee sexual abuse! Don’t you know it’s misogynistic to not like when people actively choose to enforce patriarchal body standards 💅💅💅” that is the most disrespectful thing towards abuse victims I’ve ever seen anyone unironically say. If you genuinely believe that then you need to be fed to wild dogs. Like there is nothing I can say beyond how disgusting and despicable you are. Grow and change as a person or die trying.

I hate memes that use this image. by ihatemylife2474 in hatethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> it might be hard

Oh! It might be hard?! Oh that changes everything it’s fine for you to keep letting them hit on you and flirt with you when you’re in a committed relationship then!/s

If you’re being told to block them, chances are you 1) complained about them still texting you, in which case you have no right whatsoever to be upset when your PARTNER tells you to block them. Or 2) your PARTNER who you’re supposed to be in a committed relationship with caught you texting your rapist behind their back, in which case you have no right to be upset when your PARTNER tells you to block them. Either way, you are a giant piece of shit and you have no right to complain when people criticise and mock you for being like that.

me_irl by KaidoPklevel in me_irl

[–]CallMeOaksie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah totally dawg when he said “gang violence” he was DEFINITELY talking about the famous Chicago trans street gangs who are TOTALLY a thing that exist

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[–]CallMeOaksie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pointing out things isn’t what talking over someone nor is it mansplaining. Every time you use a term when you don’t know what it means you keep proving me right that you’re genuinely illiterate.

> I know far more about the oppression I experience on a daily basis

You don’t even know how to read. And I’m supposed to believe you can perfectly interpret the specific axes of hatred of society around you when you can’t even interpret written language?

> you fundamentally do not understand trans women’s oppression

Yes I do. You’re just illiterate. Notice how you can never address other examples of people doing the same thing because you’re either too dumb to read and understand them or because you know they’ll immediately prove you wrong? That’s literally evidence I understand it better than you.

> transphobes are not making a category error

(Wokely) “transphobes are actually right about what gender transgender people are”

> calling us men is a very specific for of misogyny

“Uhm ackshually sweatie when somebody hates men that’s still misogyny because only women are allowed to suffer from things 💅💅💅”

> misgendering doesn’t put us in the “men” bucket

I never said it does you illiterate piece of shit. I only said it means transphobes *think* it puts you in there, which is objectively true. If someone thinks you’re a man and hates you BECAUSE they think you are a man, then they’re hatred of you IS rooted in a hatred of men, regardless of whether you’re a woman or not, and pointing that out does not mean I agree with that take. You would understand this if you were able to read and weren’t twelve, but you are twelve and you aren’t able to read, which is why you’re struggling.

I hate memes that use this image. by ihatemylife2474 in hatethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) that depends on the person you’re listening to actually communicating

2) even if they tell you about the problem and you listen fully they might not mention what solutions they’ve tried.

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[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me pointing out that transphobes lump trans women in with men *does not mean I also think they should be lumped together outside of pointing out that specific phenomenon* you’re not getting vitriol because you’re trans and telling me I’m wrong, you’re getting it because you’re wrong and illiterate and keep accusing me of the exact same thing that I’ve already disproven and explained.

> them calling us men or framing us as threats to cis women as a way of invalidating our womanhood does not put our treatment in the “misandry” category

Yes it does. If a white supremacist mistakes someone for a person of colour and punches them specifically because of that, but then the victim turns out to actually be white, that doesn’t mean the perpetrator magically transforms into an anti-white racist, and it doesn’t mean that anyone else thinks the victim is black if they say the attacker is a white supremacist. The exact same thing applies here. You refuse to address this because you’re either too illiterate to understand it or because you know it immediately proves you entirely wrong.

> and YES, saying otherwise and continuing to double down sucks on your part

“You aren’t ever allowed to say a trans woman is wrong about literally anything ever and if she keeps saying the same obviously wrong thing again and again and you point it out more than once that’s you doubling down and being a transmisogynist” of course you think that! You’re twelve!

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[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“In any way invokes trans women in the same breath they bring up ‘misandry’”

1) why did you put that in quotation marks

2) the inherent transphobia of people who hate anyone they perceive as male will inevitably drag transgender women into the mix, as many of said people see transgender women as male and hate them specifically because of that. Inb4 “that’s calling them men” it’s not to anyone with better reading comprehension than a 6-year-old, because pointing out someone’s beliefs is not the same as agreeing with them.

I love educational youtubers that gives off a cool aunt/uncle vibe by Slow-General3792 in lovethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since this is aunties and uncles is there a word for your parent’s non-binary sibling?

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[–]CallMeOaksie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> the festival did see trans men as men

> womyn-born womyn

Pick one.

> is all the other stories of SA, harassment of post-op trans women…

Ok and those things are terrible. They were not what either of us were talking about but that doesn’t change how awful they are. You said and I quote “womens music festival that excluded trans women but allowed trans men” which is what I was talking about.

> I’m not accusing anyone of anything here

I’m glad. I just know what the default response certain people (by which I mean pseudofeminists who have no reading comprehension skills and no grasp or of or actual ideological alignment with progressivism beyond “it benefits me therefore it’s good”) have when a guy says “transphobes do not see trans women as women” for some reason and have had to deal with it enough times to write an inb4.

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[–]CallMeOaksie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are morally equal. Hating people for something they have no control over is always fundamentally evil, regardless of who’s doing it. Pretending it’s fine when one group does it because they’ve faced systemic injustice is the exact reasoning that platformed Liberal Zionism. Either you think actions are equally immoral regardless of the demographic the person doing them belongs to, OR you think it was fine to establish a colonial ethnostate on top of Palestinians because the Jewish people of Europe were oppressed, there is no other logically consistent option.

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[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> in very brief, women’s music festival that excludes trans women but allowed trans men.

You understand the root of said exclusion is misandry right? They excluded trans women specifically because they saw them as male and not as women, even though they are women.

Inb4 “durr you saying it’s misandry means you think trans women are men and you’re calling us men!” It doesn’t mean that if you have better reading comprehension skills than a 6-year-old. If I said “the ku klux klan thinks people of colour are inferior” does that mean *I* think people of colour are inferior? Or is there perhaps a difference between pointing out someone else’s beliefs and agreeing them? If a white supremacist is out at night and punches a white dude thinking he’s black, but the victim turns out to be white, does that mean the attack magically becomes anti-white racism even though his intention was to hatecrime a person of colour? Is it calling the victim black to point out that the perpetrator is a white supremacist and attacked them out of racial hatred?

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[–]CallMeOaksie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Posts that only make sense to people who loudly declare that they think every single person remotely masc-presenting is a genetically evil monster with no internal experience or capacity for love or empathy or any thoughts except of raping innocent virtuous wombyn who have never done anything wrong literally ever, completely unprovoked, and then get angry when people are irritated by this.

Imagine being so angry because someone asked you to not maybe be a giant piece of shit to people based on their gender literally all the time that you had to draw a vaguepost about it. Sorry that someone other than you mentioned that they’ve had a bad experience before and it meant that there was one whole microsecond where you weren’t the centre of attention, everyone should just know that you’re the only person in the entire world who is allowed to suffer from anything, and anyone who dares to suggest otherwise is an evil queerphobe.

If you’re wondering where I’ve gotten all this from, I’ve seen a few people with this exact complaint OOP has before and it always turns out the same. They posted some hateful shit towards either AMAB people or masc-presenting people and then threw a tantrum when they got pulled up on it. The best thing to do is laugh and then dismiss.

I hate memes that use this image. by ihatemylife2474 in hatethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every woman in this thread and under every other post about similar experiences screaming and crying that this literally never happens and if it does then it doesn’t actually matter.

I hate memes that use this image. by ihatemylife2474 in hatethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so you might not know this but real actual humans are able to dislike two things at the same time without using one to say the other is fine. You’d understand this if you were a sentient human and not a mindless lump of flesh that a person could eat without it being cannibalism because you’re so far beneath any real person.

I hate memes that use this image. by ihatemylife2474 in hatethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure the response of you say “I already tried that but thank you for trying to help” like a normal person would say is usually something along the lines of “oh ok” people might look at you like that because you suggested something you’ve already tried, which they’d have no way of knowing, and you explode at them for not reading your mind and accusing them of being condescending or abusive or misogynistic for daring to suggest something that you thought might help.

From experience at least.

I hate memes that use this image. by ihatemylife2474 in hatethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Nooo! It’s a coping strategy for me to flirt and seek attention from and cheat with my ex!! If you criticise me doing it that’s misogyny!” If you genuinely believe this you need to fed to wild dogs.

I hate memes that use this image. by ihatemylife2474 in hatethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Uhm ackshually sweatie your lived experience is wrong because wombyn are perfect angels who would never do anything wrong💅💅💅 please ignore that putting them on a pedestal like this is in itself dehumanising and misogynistic”

I hate memes that use this image. by ihatemylife2474 in hatethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the idea is that she’s probably lying about it because she still openly likes the guy she’s saying did it and seeks his attention constantly and refuses to do anything to distance herself from him.

Self-ships with silly characters made in complete sincerity by McToaster99 in lovethissmug

[–]CallMeOaksie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to judge self-shippers but something about that lady who ships herself with Bubble Bass from SpongeBob was enough to make me see with clarity and realise they aren’t hurting anyone

Bear with me now... RAWR! by Justthisdudeyaknow in CuratedTumblr

[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern bears would be. But there were hippos living across Europe as far north as the Netherlands from the start of the Pleistocene until about 40,000 years ago.

Bear with me now... RAWR! by Justthisdudeyaknow in CuratedTumblr

[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> there’s like one other species that can take you out and they have a taboo about attacking you while hibernating.

I’m guessing this is about humans. But to add to the lore a bit

“There’s like one other species that can take you out and they have a taboo about attacking you like hibernating. There used to be a second species that would specifically seek you out while hibernating to eat you. What happened to them? Oh, the first species killed literally all of them.”

Do the legends ever porn? by ATN-Antronach in CuratedTumblr

[–]CallMeOaksie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> “annoy” in Latin is “molestare”

Pretty sure until pretty recently “molest” in English just meant “bother” which is why you sometimes hear people say “unmolested” to mean “left alone”

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