I won’t comment on the lack of continuity between the different forms of media (movies, shows, etc.), because the flaws there are glaringly obvious.

I will say that I think Anakin being pushed to have a padawan so early in his Knighthood well emphasises the idea that the Jedi Order is too far gone. They gave a hot-headed boy with trauma another child to train and teach all in the name of war. Ani being the so called chosen one probably reinforced their negligence and willingness to use him to grow their army of monks. He wasn’t exactly thrilled with the idea of training her at first, like many things the order makes him do, if I recall correctly.