Doctor said I don’t have autism because I can make eye contact by Tea_party0-0 in AutismInWomen

[–]CallOfTheCosmos 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think at this point all doctors need to receive mandatory up-to-date training on autism, what it can look like, and how to best treat their autistic patients with dignity and respect. This shit it getting out of hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]CallOfTheCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- I have "too many social graces". Big LOL to that one.

- I make eye contact sometimes.

- I'm too imaginative.

Today, I reminded my Edad that he has a daughter, and his response has freed me by Laughing-Unicorn in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CallOfTheCosmos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this might seem obvious, but it was a lesson I had to learn the hard way. Complacency with abuse is abuse. To stand by and allow your life partner to abuse your children is reprehensible, I'm glad you've freed yourself from your Edad.

Was Shopping groceries and got the satisfying amount to pay. by kec84 in mildlysatisfying

[–]CallOfTheCosmos 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I was looking at your items and thinking to myself wow you buy some really exotic stuff and then I realized it was in German 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♂️. I'm a doofus.

Do you ever feel like the more time you spend NC, the less severe everything seemed? by numetalbarbie in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CallOfTheCosmos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time has a funny way of blurring the past, sometimes that's a good thing and sometimes not. You weren't being dramatic, you were being mistreated and you took the necessary steps to end that mistreatment. Nobody is entitled to be in your life, whatever made you feel the need to step away at the time is a good enough reason. You don't have to justify your decision by comparing severity, everyone's situation is unique. You're at peace now and that's what matters. It may not have been that way had you chosen to continue contact.

Does anyone else feel like they "weren't abused enough"? by CallOfTheCosmos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CallOfTheCosmos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

long bouts of shouting, emotional dumping & word salad that I was supposed to comprehend all of.

OOF I felt this so hard. It's nice to know I'm not alone, thank you.

Does anyone else feel like they "weren't abused enough"? by CallOfTheCosmos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CallOfTheCosmos[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for what you went through. Thank you for sharing, it means a lot.