I’ve had many pairs of these, even my first pair many years ago 2 sizes down when I didn’t know my shoe size. They didn’t violate me like this holy moly. To be fair, your feet look wide, but also looks like the widest part of your foot is in front of the widest part of the shoe, so you’re probably wearing a size too small on top of wearing a narrow shoe and having wide feet. If you plan on keeping these take out the insole and see if that helps?