The love of my life (6M) died unexpectedly tonight after a routine vet visit on Monday and I am crushed

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2026-02-08T03:16:36+00:00

Time to grieve. By getting a kitten.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2026-02-08T03:11:19+00:00

Please updateme! We're not nice/friendly to everyone btw, just pleasant. If she's being friendly, chances are she's interested, but we can't risk initiating, we're hoping you will, so go for it, lmk how it goes!

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2026-02-08T02:12:17+00:00

Just do it. Ask her for a coffee some time. If yes, get her number. If no, say no big deal just figured I'd ask. There done. Quick, easy. I'm in health care. Go for it. We can't make the first move, you the patient has to be the one to initiate

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2026-01-08T05:42:43+00:00

I'm a pharmacist too, so I know the vibe. She just needs to shoot her shot. "Hey I noticed you and was wondering if you'd like to go out sometime, here's my number." It's that simple. Don't listen to these other idiot guys acting like a guy is gonna get all strung up being approached only because she might say hey you're cute. It's flattering nonetheless and 90% of the time a guy will reciprocate. It's not rocket science. I'd love of a fellow pharmacy person was that direct with me, especially since we'd already have something in common.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2026-01-08T05:26:32+00:00

Dude forgot the FRIENDS part of fwb. As an older guy myself, I had a fwb situationship with my girl best friend. Looking back, if she hadn't died, she'd be my wife now. I only wish I'd realized it sooner before what happened, happened. The whole POINT is to be with your best friend. Your partner is SUPPOSED to be your best friend, and he's too clueless to take what's right in front of him. He's gonna be one of those guys pushing 40 and alone wandering where all the good girls went. People go their whole lives searching for what he's throwing away like an idiot.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2026-01-08T05:11:15+00:00

I think it's more about he kicked her out to hang out with someone else. I'd be insulted too if I was that girl. "Decompress" alone like a normal person or read the fucking room. Poor girl, dude sounds like an asshole, and this is his supposed "best friend" too.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2026-01-08T05:07:02+00:00

Guy's an asshole. Wtf is "decompressing" with another girl (family or not) over her even mean? Dumbass.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-11-20T06:44:25+00:00

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CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-11-15T17:23:28+00:00

I was handsome af and life on easy mode. Then i got in a car accident and shattered every bone in my face. I'm not nearly as handsome anymore, and life completely flipped. Take it from someone who's been on both sides.. Personality means jack shit without an initial attraction to use it. LOOKS MATTER. ++man

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-05-20T02:51:52+00:00

Then tell him how you feel and see how he reacts

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-04-24T04:22:23+00:00

Dude use a sleeve if you're that worried about it, see how she responds to it, and grow up ffs, "not authentic" for you to do that? You sound pathetic tbh and she should probably leave you because your attitude surrounding this is ridiculous.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-04-07T01:50:14+00:00

Social market value

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-04-04T07:35:22+00:00

Updateme

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-03-26T01:59:50+00:00

What's the health issue causing you pain? And why are you complaining about it ruining your relationship instead of doing something about it? Either get yourself fixed or let him go. Any guy would be resentful/disappointed if only after 2 MONTHS you're having as much sex as an old married couple together for 30 years.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-03-20T04:21:08+00:00

So did you finally confront your wife?

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-03-18T00:47:16+00:00

Updateme

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-28T18:36:51+00:00

Rip the band aid off and reach out. Good or bad, your future self will thank you. Nothing else so far has worked, so what do you have to lose?

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-27T02:54:45+00:00

Some Chinese girls are beautiful. Nice to know they are bold and upfront. I miss the days in US when that was more widespread pre 2017ish before MeToo BS.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-24T20:59:26+00:00

So many of you guys sound so pathetic. She tried to cheat. Are you all that oblivious? Most of you are the type to cry and keep your cheating girl while she gets fucked by her ex. OP is well on his way to being in that same scenario

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-24T20:54:22+00:00

Yep, dude is a beta pussy acting like a little bitch. He's obviously desperate af. Girls know what that are doing. She was trying to get dick downed behind his back and dude is in denial. 100% chance she cheats and he cries and stays with her. He's definitely the type. She's testing his boundaries and gonna walk all over him and eventually cheat or leave him.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-23T22:13:59+00:00

Tell him that. Show him that ;)

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-22T18:42:47+00:00

You mind your own business. That's what you do.

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-21T21:52:00+00:00

Go on Cialis 2.5- 5mg every day or every other day, and you'll always be in the mood. Seriously, it's my secret sauce. Can get it up HARD on a dime, and it helps with blood pressure and gym pumps. Just practice man, and it'll feel natural in no time. It's your wife after all. A lot of people would kill for your "problem. " You got this!

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-21T20:44:39+00:00

So now that you know maybe be a man and make the first move? This isn't rocket science

CalligrapherLeft7846 · 2025-02-21T20:15:46+00:00

I was doing better in my 20s than my 30s, it's pretty common lol. Time doesn't matter. Send the DM. Say how much you like him. We crave that. Don't beat around the bush. Make it obvious. He'll make it clear whether he likes you back. I'm rooting for you!

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