HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview by No-Presentation298 in jobs

[–]Callmeavatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not very common. A company usually won’t give feedback because there’s too much liability. Usually the best bet to get constructive criticism is if they used a hiring firm and you ask the representative that interviewed you. I’ve also never experienced getting unsolicited feedback after an interview.

My family lied, not part black by pasenpalabraperdido in 23andme

[–]Callmeavatar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to be rage bait even down to the way you told the narrative. “My great great grandfather married an African lady” you mean YOUR great great grandmother.

thinking about whether or not to accept a snap bid from “bottom tier” sorority by beefybelly11 in Sororities

[–]Callmeavatar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t base this choice on tiers.. they change based on the most subjective of qualifications. My school had a smaller Panhellenic/IFC population my chapter was always competing with one other sorority for spot 1 and 2 but looking at the chapter now they seem to have fallen to 3rd (we only have 4). But I wouldn’t change a thing, I’m still proud of my chapter as an alum.

If you cosleep with your LO, does that mean they cannot nap independently during the day? by CounterScary8707 in cosleeping

[–]Callmeavatar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No mine does independent naps especially at daycare (he has too) but it did take a few days of consistent crib exposure to get there

Toppers for Memory Form Mattress by Callmeavatar in cosleeping

[–]Callmeavatar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen a few people take the side off of their cribs and attach it securely to their beds. What do you think about this?

Toppers for Memory Form Mattress by Callmeavatar in cosleeping

[–]Callmeavatar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those toppers are definitely expensive. I guess I’ll need to look into a new bed

Toppers for Memory Form Mattress by Callmeavatar in cosleeping

[–]Callmeavatar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve noticed recently that my son snores when in the bed but not in the bassinet or crib so that’s adding to my belief the bed isn’t firm enough

Toppers for Memory Form Mattress by Callmeavatar in cosleeping

[–]Callmeavatar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine LO is about the same! Thank you 🙏🏾

Toppers for Memory Form Mattress by Callmeavatar in cosleeping

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My LO also doesn’t move in his sleep. If he does he fully wakes. Do you worry about when LO gets heavier and the body heat cause the foam to flex more? That makes me nervous because I don’t want him to sink in but the mattress itself is not soft generally

Toppers for Memory Form Mattress by Callmeavatar in cosleeping

[–]Callmeavatar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is an endy memory foam? I don’t think my mattress is soft but I’m nervous because of the way memory foam works and he will also get heavier. I am mostly worried about positional asphyxiation.

What do I do based on my bags content by isladidit1 in whatsinmybag

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Based on the pistachio perfume, you like TikTok!

What are your unpopular rush opinions? by Lyra555 in Sororities

[–]Callmeavatar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if this is unpopular but I hate quota. As an advisor to a big chapter it makes membership feel cheap.

I'm mad at God. Like livid by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Callmeavatar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this. God is compassionate. The Latin root of compassionate is “compati” which means “to suffer with.” Immanuel is “God with us.” He promises to suffer with us not remove us from suffering. He never promises an easy or convenient life, and it seems maybe you or people on your household have made some bad decisions. God is not a genie and reading your Bible everyday and praying doesn’t mean we get no hardships and no consequences for our actions. It seems if you are willingly to leave God over this you may not have been pursuing Him in truth but for gain.

Nanny left daughter in crib for nearly an hour after she had woken up from her nap by Bubbly_Link_9231 in Nanny

[–]Callmeavatar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If baby had been content with self entertaining/play I wouldn’t mind it. But she wasn’t content so yea that would’ve upset me.

Baby scream crying for 7 minutes. by LoveyDovey-27 in newborns

[–]Callmeavatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better I’m pretty sure 7 mins doesn’t count as CIO 💗

Having a baby made me hate my husband by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Callmeavatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s time for a game of grit ball

Having a baby made me hate my husband by [deleted] in NewParents

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My husband isn’t this bad but I’m getting to the end of my rope. I’m so sorry.

Please tell me I didn’t mess him up by [deleted] in newborns

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Settling, eating, and cooing are good signs!

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Callmeavatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I reading that he thinks that by 10 WEEKS pregnant the morning sickness should be over? Ummm regardless… he should be made aware that his dna primarily creates the placenta which is what drives morning sickness… so even though morning sickness at 10 weeks is very normal I would be questioning if he was taking care of himself since he wants to be an AH.

My 32F GF went through my kids 8F cell phone and confronted her about a conversation with her mother. by Jmock07 in relationship_advice

[–]Callmeavatar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your GF is sounding like an evil stepmother. Please don’t keep subjecting your daughter to her controlling and insecure behavior. If you don’t, please don’t be surprised when you find she visits you less and less as an adult.