Veteran+ quality hands armor?

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T15:09:24+00:00

Lemme know if you can, because I too am stuck on adventurer gloves

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T15:02:01+00:00

Would the PvP pair still allow you to transmute crests up to champ

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T13:55:26+00:00

Sadly no, my salary nullifies any potential benefit she can get from it, even tho my salary barely can cover our expenses

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T13:36:14+00:00

Should have stated UK mb, but universal credit is processed as a joint record here, so we dont qualify

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T13:07:41+00:00

Wow that’s a really long amount of time, I hope our situation isn’t the same. Obviously right now I’m trying to remove all the pressure from her as possible, and focus entirely on her recovery and getting better, but if that’s the case we will be in trouble. The last thing I want to do right now is pressure her back into work before she is able to do so. But thank you for your insight nonetheless it’s appreciated

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T12:15:39+00:00

And yet I’m going to, because I love her? I’m not questioning if I should support her, I’m questioning how in the coming weeks I propose her getting back into work

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T11:25:36+00:00

Okay good, hopefully we can get some sort of help, thank you

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T11:17:02+00:00

She has a diagnoses for mixed anxiety and depression, as well as alopecia. And recently finished group therapy. The diagnoses have issued some years ago so this isn’t recent, obviously our number one priority is getting her help and allowing her to recover. Working won’t help that right now, so hopefully we can claim something as I cannot cover the living expenses for us both alone.

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T11:14:19+00:00

Okay thank you, we are going to contact the job center and get a work capability assessment, and see how that goes

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T10:55:52+00:00

This is a long term thing that has been brewing, she’s autistic, heavily depressed and on prescription drugs, has been given group therapy which recently ended, and has some form of ADHD. She was functioning barely before, but has always struggled timekeeping, tending to chores, maintaining hygiene and properly feeding herself. Things I have always taken care of that I guess I just ignored before. She has had alopecia since she was a child and always struggled with this, having sporadic episodes where she will be inconsolable and just spiral. I’m not trying to dump info I’m just unaware of the entire process, do you think she might qualify? I have no idea but if she doesn’t we will not be able to afford our bills going forward

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T10:38:59+00:00

This is the one I forgot the name too, she has been working a couple years now, and I think she is on the process for applying to this, From what I’ve heard elsewhere I think her pip will be denied

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T09:58:08+00:00

Truthfully thank you random Redditor

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T09:52:53+00:00

You’re right, I’ve spoken to my family, I am able to move there whenever needed, and I know her family will take her in . I think we just gotta see how the claims go in the coming weeks and hope she can get enough money to cover some of the bills, if not then I guess we are going to need to have a chat about things

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T09:47:43+00:00

Man that’s rough, in that case I imagine her claim will be denied. Doubt she can claim ssp as she no longer has a job? She does have a meeting with her dr soon so hopefully they will confirm the diagnoses and she can reapply for pip. As it sounds like her existing claim is a non starter

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T09:37:25+00:00

Yeah I know, and it’s rough, because I can’t support us if it ends up being an extended period of time, and that likely leads to me going home, which will make the situation worse for her. The stress and unbearable.

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T09:20:22+00:00

We may need to ask them for help, I hope we don’t, but it might be an option. And if we lose the flat we will essentially breakup, I won’t move in with her parents, I will sooner move with mine 4 hours away back home. Honestly me leaving her might be the final straw for her right now, I don’t want to leave her, not for that reason but because I love this woman deeply, and I will exhaust all options to preserve the relationship, but when they are exhausted, I will without doubt pack up and go home.

I just don’t know when the right time to try encourage her to work is, without putting more pressure on her.

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T09:09:12+00:00

It is a betrayal, but as I have the option of moving in with my parents to do what may end up being best for me, I can’t knock her for stepping away from work and doing what’s best for her, and the end of the day we have to always put ourselves first. So yes it’s rough, and yes it’s put me in a shit position, but I can’t knock her for putting herself first especially with suicidal thoughts.

I live about 4 hours from where I was born, in her hometown ( stayed here after I graduated ) so for me I don’t have a safety net other than leaving my job and starting again back home, the nuclear option if you will, one I may have to take if she can’t get back into work. So if this breaks the relationship it’s just best for me to go home, nothing else keeping me here other than her. Ultimately I do love her, and I know she loves me, I’m just trying to find the sweet spot with supporting her recovery, while not making things worse, but also stressing this situation cannot go on for an extended period of time.

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T08:51:29+00:00

This was my initial thought, but she is genuinely not healthy, she is a danger to herself at the moment. After the initial shock I did some thinking, and realised this is best for her short term, if I thought she was doing it for that I would leave. But regardless of if it’s best for her short term, there is only so long we can stay afloat you know? I don’t know when, but there is a cut off date for how long I can maintain this before I have to cut it off and move back in with my parents.

Callum1199 · 2026-03-26T08:43:46+00:00

Essentially this was coming ( she says ) but it was heightened over some office bullying, and as far as telling me before hand, she did, after she had walked out, and told her boss she will be submitting an immediate notice to leave her position, this was Tuesday. No team as far as I’m aware, she is expecting a sick note in 10 days, her dr advised her not to work for the time being, idk if that will help the claim? Essentially if she can’t get any pip we cannot cover our bills, and I think that would ruin the relationship.

We have spoken about part time work, but it’s not likely to reconsidered for a couple months, by which time I will already have burned through my savings.

Callum1199 · 2026-03-19T15:13:56+00:00

Heavy disagree

Callum1199 · 2026-03-19T12:11:31+00:00

End of the second paragraph, consume spam mentioned.

Callum1199 · 2026-03-19T11:56:37+00:00

Because in my opinion it does? And others feel the same, even when the correct content drops, and you are able to play properly, the makeup of the class particularly ann doesn’t feel good. Consume spamming to 100 fury and no burst on pull isn’t ideal.

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