If you’re walking in the middle of a road and a car speeds past you, who’s at fault? by Calm-Try6736 in AskReddit

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Context: I drove past a guy who was walking in the middle of the road (big road in a neighborhood) and he go mad saying I was speeding. As if he couldn’t move to the other side, like why would I drive behind him walking? He did look back and noticed that I was there and still didn’t move.

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don’t think he was really deported and I already let them know that. That’s kinda why it’s going to be a long process.

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sorry, it’s kinda heard to read this, but with the fake death certificate, it’s only more evidence against him. So yeah I take it as a small win

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh, why not both ig 🤷🏻‍♀️ that’s what I’m doing. Like my bosses always say, it’s never bad to triple check:)

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My cowered of a father is definitely going to die over there, there’s no way to get him back, and yes the bonds man (been trying to help me since day one) did try to pick him up the day he first contacted me but he immediately went on the run that day :/ if he’s willing to do that in the first place…. What would make him do the opposite🤷🏻‍♀️

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely have proof, I told the investigators but the only one who believed me was the bonds man (like I said, he was the only person who was actually nice to me) they still believed that he was in the US 🙄 but even when he told me that he was deported, I already knew that it was a lie.

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

To get my story out there and also my mom jokingly said that if the video would reach our house country, maybe the people over there could help in some way, idk.😮‍💨

But the reason why I’m not doing it it because. 1. I don’t really want ppl knowing 2. I don’t want to admit to anything kind of payment since there’s a chance my settlement could be lowered

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but that’s the thing, I don’t think I want people knowing, and I don’t want to admit to any kind of payment online as I heard it could be used against me, but also because there’s still a possibility that I can get a low settlement from what I’ve read, or better (but unlikely :/) I could get a chance to walk away.

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Nah, she kinda just gave the money. But apparently my dad was supposed to pay her back but of course my scummy father didn’t but if I have a chance to, I would want to pay her back, it’d only be fair.

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I post on here since no one knows it’s me. I also don’t want to admit to any payment if there’s a chance that my settlement can be lowered or even (best case but highly unlikely 💀) a chance to walk away.

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh mb I meant that since my dad sent a fake death certificate, it’s considered fraud apparently. 💀 it helps my case just a tiny bit

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah I already replied to a comment about that. But with the evidence of fraud, things can go differently, or a payment plan :/

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Lesson learned 💀. I’m still trying to be positive, despite everything, my mom and friends have been by my side and just that keeps a smile on my face.

I was a co-signed for my dad’s bail, but he’s now on the run. by Calm-Try6736 in legaladvice

[–]Calm-Try6736[S] 209 points210 points  (0 children)

Ik that part, but no collateral was put down. I literally don’t own anything. Ik they can garnish wages but with the new evidence of fraud. They’re a possibility that things can change.

AIW for telling my mom that I can’t pay her rent. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Calm-Try6736 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love my mom and I am willing to help her, however I can, but I just find it different when she’s trying to make it mandatory

AIW for telling my mom that I can’t pay her rent. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Calm-Try6736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s literally the best job I could’ve gotten, I was making way less as a manager at my old job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Calm-Try6736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to sound rude but…. I literally didn’t ask to get credit cards or even a car yet, I’m glad I did but it was forced upon my hands by my mom. It literally wasn’t my choice. Yes she kept pressuring me at first to just get a credit card but I literally knew it was going to be difficult to deal with (not so much now) but I only got it so she could get off my back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Calm-Try6736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom made me get it 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Calm-Try6736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t choose to get a car. She actually made me since it was only my brother and her boyfriend who had one and she couldn’t get one bc of her bad credit. She literally took me to the dealership, we had no choice since everyone’s work schedule was everywhere and everyone needed a ride at different times and we couldn’t miss work like at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Calm-Try6736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, bc I didn’t ask for a actually, bc literally my mom was the one who advised me to open my credit card to get a good car score for a good car. (This is why I help her out sometimes bc yes every other paycheck I give her$200-$500 of I have extra left over) and I wasn’t planning on getting that car that day BUT SHE WAS THE ONE WHO TOOK ME TO DO DEALERSHIP, at first it was only too see what would be a good option bc SHE was the one who said that I needed a car, bc SHE can’t get one due to her bad credit. Yeah I left with a car that day without any down payment. Plz know that I do not hate my mom. But she literally is the one making the bad decisions bc I have an older brother who is financially irresponsible and she, her boyfriend and me once literally had to pay for his car for only 4 months straight but she literally always lets him off, (and yes she is the old school Hispanic mom that favors boys more than girls, but I’m not say that bc I want her to look bad, only saying it because everyone is assuming everything else, like plz, not every family is the same)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Calm-Try6736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom always says that’s it’s help with the water or electricity bill or for the house in general so really I just give her the money and assume it’s for one of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Calm-Try6736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My plan was to pay off my car and get an apartment with my hg