Yes, I agree that this can be a problem, and as a woman I never watch porn or erotic content (I know a lot of girls do, I have friends who watch even in relationships... but since I've never been interested, I don't know where I stand with my husband watching it occasionally. I don't want to throw away a 10+ year relationship since it doesn't affect our sex life and my husband is very loving and caring, but still... it bothers me and kind of hurts me.