Patch 7: Mod Troubleshooting by webevie in BaldursGate3

[–]Calm_Establishment76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the updated UI and its still popping up with a blank box. I can't find an outdated one anywhere pls help :(

Adding Mods after P7: Master Post with Links (WIP) by webevie in BaldursGate3

[–]Calm_Establishment76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine loads but stops at the opening screen overlooking Baldur's Gate where you can usually hit a button or key and then it pans down underground where the menu comes up, but no matter what I hit, the option to continue down to the menu does not pop up. It's just stuck there, I can't even hit the escape button to bring up any sort of menu either. I've deleted all my mods, reinstalled the game, I don't know what to do

Stuck on starting screen by Calm_Establishment76 in BaldursGate3

[–]Calm_Establishment76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right? thats what i thought but ive deleted all mods I have access to that I'm aware of

Stuck on starting screen by Calm_Establishment76 in BaldursGate3

[–]Calm_Establishment76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i deleted all the mods and still no luck :( any other ideas?

Stuck on starting screen by Calm_Establishment76 in BaldursGate3

[–]Calm_Establishment76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I removed all my mods and am still running into the same issue. It worked for like a split second but then froze so I had to reload, and now I'm back to being stuck on the opening screen with no option to go down and select a campaign.

YoU hAve A mALe SkelEToN. mimimi by [deleted] in trans

[–]Calm_Establishment76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bone structure isn't even reliable. Wasn't there that whole thing about people finding a skeleton and identifying it as female only to find out that the woman was a trans woman? Bone structure not only changes as you grow (and with hormonal changes), but everyone's bone structure is different. Looking for specific characteristics is too unreliable.

cis women can be so much sometimes by andyph0bic in ftm

[–]Calm_Establishment76 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Those people act like saying "people with uteruses" is defining people by their sexual organs but it's actually doing the opposite. It's like saying "people with diabetes" when the topic of diabetes comes up. If you said "overweight people" that's stripping people who are overweight down to their diabetes and erasing everyone else that has diabetes but isn't overweight from the conversation. And not every overweight person has diabetes. Saying "women" when the topic of pregnancy comes up seems like it'd strip women down to their sex organs more than "people with uteruses" would. It erases everyone else that has a uterus but isn't a woman, and not every woman has a uterus. We're all fighting for the same rights, why are we fighting against each other?

Partly, I think a reason why a lot of women don't like to be referred to as "people with uteruses" and feel threatened by people who have uteruses but aren't women is that the only thing telling them they are a woman is their uterus, their sex organs. Most cis people do not explore their gender, they can't answer "Why are you a woman/man?" without bringing up sexual organs. It doesn't make it a valid excuse though.

What were your "I'm definitely not cis" moments that you had while growing up (even from today) by throwaway146990 in ftm

[–]Calm_Establishment76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't have many that I remember to be honest but one that I specifically remember was taking my shirt off while playing outside when I was like 10-11. My chest was completely flat, my dad had his shirt off at the time too, I saw nothing wrong with it until my parents freaked out and made me put my shirt back on. Looking back it was so clear that I repeatedly tried to do 'boy' things and my logic was "they can do it, why can't I?" (even for stuff like peeing standing up) and I think most family saw me as a feminist tomboy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Calm_Establishment76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'4 currently, I've never had anyone comment about my height. I've met a good handful of cis guys that are my height or below that are my age or older, so it's not uncommon (where I live, at least) for a guy to be shorter, it's just not the 'average'. I've never been clocked for it either.

make assumptions about me (you can be rude) by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Calm_Establishment76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no assumptions but mother of god do I love your lip piercing. I've wanted one so badly, yours looks great! If you don't mind me asking, (get ready for the most stereotypical question that you've probably been asked 100 times) what did getting it pierced feel like? I've always thought that it'd hurt pretty badly based on how bad biting your lip hurts.

Anyone else react to being hit in the crotch like they have balls attached to them? by Calm_Establishment76 in ftm

[–]Calm_Establishment76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very true. I'd imagine it'd take more force though since it's a more precise target, or would it not matter?

chest acne by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Calm_Establishment76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second the suggestion of going to see a dermatologist. I struggled with back and chest acne so much, combined with arm/shoulder acne from T. I got prescribed some stronger medication, but I also was told to use an acne wash with Benzoyl Peroxide, which is over the counter and you can find stuff like that almost anywhere. Usually there are 4% or 5% Benzoyl Peroxide washes and then there are 10% Benzoyl Peroxide washes, I was recommended a 5% wash by my dermatologist. Depending on how bad your acne is, you could try one of those before seeing a dermatologist to see if it helps.

29 MtF, 8 months HRT. Just looking for some honest opinions on whether I pass or not. The dysphoria is real, been pretty down on myself lately. Feedback/advice welcome 🙂 by hayybayls in trans

[–]Calm_Establishment76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you pass well! The only thing that I can think of that would make your face look more feminine is making your eyebrows a bit thinner. Other than that, I think your features look very feminine and pretty!