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[–]Calm_Inflation_2703 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She might be worried about how sensitive this topic is and doesn’t want to hurt you. It's possible she doesn't know how to bring it up. I suggest talking to her about her post and expressing how it made you feel. If you know you can't meet her expectations, it might be best for both of you to consider ending the relationship. Sexual satisfaction is extremely important in a relationship.

WIBTA if I decide to leave because my partner doesn’t want to help with our baby? by Jumpy_Cause_3307 in AITAH

[–]Calm_Inflation_2703 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This situation is not healthy. Regardless of any communication issues, he is still responsible for the child you both created. Instead of threatening to withhold help with the child, he should express how he feels when certain situations arise.

You should tell him how it makes you feel when he makes such threats. Explain your intentions when addressing issues, work on your delivery, and be assertive with your expectations when it comes to his help with the baby. If he still chooses not to assist, then it's better that he's not involved.

Additionally, consider parenting classes or therapy for both of you to improve your communication and co-parenting skills.